August 11, 2011

One at a time!


I have always been with one person at a time. Have never been part of any group or something like what mostly people have in schools or colleges. But for me things have always been same way throughout the different transitions of my life, let it be school, college, articleship or classes. Let it be any time or any phrase of my life, I've never had been with more than one friend. Yes, I do talk to many but on priority list only one stands. Indeed they changed, that too only because time separated us! Hence made new friend. But their had always been one. As my best friend rightly says, I believe in being with one at a time.
Fair as well, being with more means less dedication towards any particular one but when you are with one person you are totally with them only. Though, I've always been attracted to groups but some how it never worked out with me. No regrets or complaints but plain acceptance of, how life has been as of!
Secondly, had never been friend with any male. I always thought as well as think that till there are girls around to help, there isn't any need that I should go for help to any male classmate. From the childhood I've believed into this and hence had never made any male friends. During School days can't remember if I would have ever talked to any boy, never felt the need as well, as I said before. Good or bad, right or wrong, I don't know but this is what my approach had always been. Even in college I had never talked to any boy, I always preferred being friend with girls. Sorry boys, but that's the truth :p.
Even today, this is how I'm. Can't remember if I had ever went and talked to a boy. Yes, I do talk to them sometimes but only if they come to me first and talk. I never took that first step. Not that I have any ego or something nor I'm against them but some things just go in it's own way, such is it. Have shared my contacts with some & some boys are in my friends list on social sites as well but that's only because they had shown some interest in being friend with me or else I don't think even these few people would have been my friend, but then it would not have made much difference as well! As life had passed smoothly without them as on, so it would have gone in future as well, at least I don't doubt. But never mind, things have changed a bit, yes, they have changed only a bit! And this change is accepted as well. Happily :)

Happy Friendship Day! :)

2 comments:

jay said...

One more comment i wud like to add. I jus went thru your blog and i easily concluded that u dont want to easily share ur identity.

So out of the box question for u, r u an introvert?

i wud like to ask for a mail id for further chats and wud like not to use ur blog as a way to chat and adding comments after comments for chat purposes. and u must b smart enuf to find my email id and mail me(but wud u do it ? i dont think so). U can do that if u want to and also go thru my blogs if u want to. Comments welcomed ! (from May-Be friend of urs)

Nilima ;) said...

@ Jay:
1. Before answering your question as to I'm an introvert or not, may I know what is your views on an introvert person, I mean what exactly that word mean to you? It'll help me answering your question.
2. As far as giving my email-id is concerned, you already have it! :)
3. Ironically, I don't like chatting! So that would not be possible, extremely sorry for that.
4. You can freely comment on any post, I would not mind. You may even ask me relevant questions, till I'm comfortable in answering them I'll do reply you.
Rest, I'm just trying to be anonymous as it makes me free & not liable to anybody for anything written. I feel people would judge me if they know who I'm, which I don't like. For me my freedom is all that matters. I want to write what I want to write & not what others want to read.
5. As far as may be your friend word is concerned, yes I'm one of your classmate is all I can say! :)
Enjoy!!!