Follow your heart...

I quite often end up being into an argument. I many times hold different, ok according to them very different opinion about many things and I never hesitate into putting forth my point of views with my valid explanations as well. But sometimes it's not possible to have a right or wrong answer, it's matter of perception. What you perceive as right might be wrong in my eyes and what you perceive as wrong might be right in my views. Being young many times you don't find proper opportunities to put forth your views but I feel that's unfair. Everyone should have equal right to speak! :-\
But I tend to stop myself as soon as I realise that it's not needed. I don't believe into wasting my time behind deaf ears. You should know worth of your words and should speak only for those who know it's worth and only when it's worthy!

But where you are involved into it and you get trapped I hate this situation. I prefer being silent. This silence remains for as long as one could expect it from me. My past experience has taught me never use harsh words in your defence coz later on even if you win you'll end up being in regrets for what you said! :-|
So I remain silent...
Things take time to get back to normal but they indeed get back to normal. But does this normalcy means that things are really fine?! Not always. It's not possible that you've started interacting normally with everyone means things are normal now. You do hold grudge in your heart for you are being misunderstood or not allowed to explain yourself.
Sometimes you may fill the cracks from above and it may also show you that it has been fixed but you never know that this might sometimes cause you more harm for you'll not be able to know when it get deepen but you think it's cured and may not be prepared for the deeper cracks that get developed.

It's true, either you can remain happy or you can make others happy. Very rarely can anyone make others happy and be happy himself/herself and vice versa.
Moreover you can hardly ever make others happy forever and no matter what you do for them it'll still be considered less. Your sacrifices might be nothing for them. Your hard work and sacrifice might get unrecognized and then situation will be neither you were happy but nor others are for whatever you did. I think it's better to live your life for your happiness. You can never make others happy some or other person will definitely one day point their finger on you and then all your sacrifices as on that day would be waste. Instead at least you'll be happy if you would follow your heart! :-|