Acceptance!

Sometimes you have to face some problems without any option and you think cursed, that you're only made to suffer and go through though times, that you are negated!
Then at some juncture you end up meeting a person who is sort of into the same circumstances but the approach and views of taking things is positive and have more acceptability towards what life has to offer! And suddenly you realise that you just sympathised yourself too much and crib about circumstances being bad to you and only you, whereas it's many times same with many people it's just whether you can accept it and move ahead with it taking notice of it as a mere happening of an even like any other or you give way too much importance to it and just try making out reasons of it in front of others and try to reason out just for those tough times being big hurdles for you to cross!
But when you find this different approach you do end up simplifying your life. It's just that you never knew this could be a way of living but when you knew you use and try living life again happily, as ever! :-)

Sometimes we learn from others coz we can't think of ways on our own. But it's better to learn if can't think on own, accepting it later on is also courageous and appreciating! B-)
As I always say, there is no protocol to live life!

It's all about trial and error! (this is said by one of my BFF! See I didn't took your credit! :-P )