It still exists

Me: Today my cousins sis had a baby girl, wow! m happy. :)
Friend 1: first child?
Me: Nay, she already have a daughter, in fact coincidentally all the three cousin sisters of mine have daughters as their first child! Now they want to see if I'll continue the trend or not. But they'll have to wait more and more for it. ;) :P
Friend 1: OOH second child also a girl, then there might be a different environment isn't it?
Me: yeah, thought she is at native and I haven't yet talked to her but I can imagine what might be happening!
Friend 1: I can remember when I was about to born my dad was not there and after my birth when my relatives called to my dad they were sad to inform him but my dad declared that I always knew that I'll have a baby girl. And my relatives asked him that you already have a daughter then why you wanted a daughter again? And my dad replied that my first daughter loves and care for me so much that I want more love and care so I wanted one more daughter. Simple! :)
Friend 2: My grandmother actually cried because I was also a girl and my Di was the first child.
Me: How rude is that, but you know what, my Mom always say that she actually prayed to God to have a baby girl. I was by choice and not by chance! I know that they had a baby boy already and hence it doesn't matter much if then you have a daughter but still the generation in which we borned was still not that modern that anybody would wish to have a daughter child but my Mom did. She always said that she use to pray and ask God to give her a daughter and all my relatives would say that since she was fond of a girl she will not have a girl child and when I was born she was very very happy. :)
Friend 1: Hmm... We can see that! In fact till you told us about your bro I always thought that you are single child.
Friend 2: I have been to her house so many times and the way her Mom pamper her and she behave so immaturely...
Me: Chup na... (covering her mouth)
But you know one of my cousin brother also have two daughters and at the time of second child everybody expected to have a baby boy and as usual every one was disappointed but now you would not believe the way she is brought up, now her grandparents don't let her mother go to her parents house because they can't live without those two granddaughters. I don't understand that why should they behave so at the time of birth, I can't even imagine that how it might be feeling when you come to know that your own family was not happy when you were born.
Of course we don't decide who we want to be, a boy or a girl? Then why revenge kind of is taken out from girls. And mostly females of the family would only do all such things, I don't know why they forget that they are also somebody's daughter. Women are their own enemies.
Friend 1: chill now, it's part of our life. No matter we like or not but it still exists.
ME: Yeah, we can only say that from the outer heart but these kind of distinctions happens and don't know till when it will happen? All I know is, it's sad to have such people around and I hate them. Really! Very much! :/