December 13, 2015

Women

A woman is like a water!
She is flexible enough to take the shape you want to shape in.
She is adaptable enough to take the color you want to color in.
She is soft at times and she can be harsh with its forces.
She has her own flow for her life.
She gives life to many.
She can even be harmful at times if in excess... (LOL! If you know what I mean? ;-))
She cannot be trapped and stopped with the force.
She is pure and beautiful when flows in her direction where she intends to go!
Without a women in your life in any form, your life is incomplete, isn't it? :-)

December 8, 2015

Learn to reply...

When someone is giving you their time, make a note to respect it and never ever walk out leaving them waiting for you whereas you either don't care about their wait or become too innocent to not have noticed about it. In any situation you will lose your integrity...

December 7, 2015

Being Selfish

Those who say about themselves and/or those whom others say that they are selfish, are they really selfish COMPLETELY?!
It is easy to think about our own selfish needs with regards to materialistic things BUT when it comes to VALUE, MORALE, CULTURE, CHARACTER, etc., terms, almost everyone become selfless and want OTHER person to have those in them than thinking about oneself, isn't it?

Why can't we be selfish when it comes to showing good character, having good values, imbibing great morale into us? We all want others to understand and behave properly to us all the time whilst save ourself from every situation with some excuse. Rather it's that we hardly think about ourself and our behaviour and always try to point out our index on others and find faults in their wrong doings, correct them than either try to think from their point of view or think of how we as an individual could have changed the scenario from being ruined, do we? Do we think what can we improve in ourself today? Do you think about the day at it's end and just think of good things you did and about the not so good moments how could they be improved by yourself only solely by you changing something in you, may it be your perspective towards that situation or any small act or a positive thought or just forgiving the person who did something not acceptable, do we?

Indeed the answer lies inside us...

Sometimes it's good to be selfish you see... ;)
Just think about YOU first then about others!

Ciao!

December 4, 2015

SOMETIMES BE SAD!

Agreeing and accepting as well as following positivity in life, the difficult phase comes when life is unfair to you and all your positivity seems to drain for a moment and you don't want to think even a single thing that is good but want to focus and accept clearly and truly that YES, MY LIFE IS SUCKING!
 I GUESS SOMETIMES ITS OKAY TO GIVE UP ON LONG PRECONCEIVED HOPES AND ACCEPT THE FAILURES YOU'VE GOT... SOMETIMES THE BAD MAKES FEEL GOOD WHEN THOUGHT OF... SOMETIMES JUST THINKING OF ALL THE THINGS THAT HAS SCREWED YOU REAL TIME SINCE LONG BUT YOU'VE TRIED TO IGNORE THEM JUST BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO BE POSITIVE... SOMETIMES IT FEELS BETTER TO SHED TEARS... SOMETIMES IT FEELS LIGHTER TO WET PILLOW... SOMETIMES IT FEELS GOOD TO CRIB ABOUT EVERYTHING.. SOMETIMES IT BECOMES IMPORTANT TO BE SAD, TO ACCEPT YOUR TRUE FEELINGS...

P.S.: Not ALWAYS, just SOMETIMES!

Resentment

Why it so happens that the more you try to keep patience the more you feel it being tested?
Reaching a juncture of life where everything looks only blur and there seems no correct path nor the road you've taken for so long seem to take you anywhere and you don't know if there is any alternate route available or if you can even try on new way or either you should discover one!
This confusion... It suffocates sometimes!
And worst part... ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH... Even if you try to tell about it to someone, they either underestimate it and could not relate to your feelings or they try to give you the sympathy which just don't help anyways.
*SIGH*
Over the top... YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW IF EVER SOMETHING WILL CHANGE FOR THE BETTER...

It feels damn funny when you look back at your life and feel that life has changes so drastically and yet ironically you get the feeling that nothing has changed since so long and life is just PAUSED!

October 4, 2015

Thankful to almighty

Life has so many incidences...
They're chapters to our story written by God. And every chapter has a moral. If the moral is leant then chapter gets closed and new one begins. If the moral is not leant, the chapter keeps going...

Until we serve the life's purpose the story doesn't end.

I'm thankful to each chapter and the moral I've learning. Good or bad, whatever the experience has been, the joinery of life always have amazed me with its surprises, with the ups and downs, with the twist and turns, with the dead ends and the new discovery of paths... 😊

Every single life seems means to our soul's learning which reaches its destination in our last life when we learn our last lessons and may be reach to a great heights as a person or living being.

October 2, 2015

Don't fall...

Never fall so much for someone or something that your own individuality is lost and you neither find respect from others nor you recognize your self respect!

August 2, 2015

Friendship Day! ;-)

Had a lovely day today on friendship day by meeting all me BFFs.
Sometimes life feels so blessed despite all ODDs all because I'm surely blessed to have lovely people in my life. They help me, inspire me, be with me as pillar and never let me fall, be with me at all times, even if I forget to contact without any ego make efforts to be in touch.
So many things I've learned from them and learning more...
I am sure they too feel same for me hence I am part of their life. :-)
Thank you GOD for all the friends you've given me. They are one of best people in the world! :-) 

July 31, 2015

Shiva Triology 1- The Immortals of Meluha



I have been fascinated about this book series by the praise I heard for this author and his work. After making right time to start with this book, also because of my pure interest in SPIRITUALITY, I haven't tried before reading any spiritual book but had followed the story of LORD SHIVA for the matter of fact of being Hindu by religion or otherwise the worship done in family but yes indeed, I had some interest in reading the book only for the matter of fact it being based on story of Lord Shiva and yet it offering something new and different was the another obvious reason to go for it!
Mind you! Taking the same story line and  trying to write it differently without deviating from it's real essence as well as fulfilling the essence on the main sculpture isn't totally an easy task which the author Amish had fulfilled to the greater extent if not completely.
Having known the story of Lord Shiva and reading something same in order to find something new was into itself a too high as a hope from deep inside of my tiny heart and yet the book had not disappointed me so much so that as soon as I finished with the first series I fetch the following one from the same series rather than taking a break and continuing with something else to refresh my mind.
The story, as already described is written based on the Modern lifestyle in the same spiritual sense, this is something that this man 'AMISH' did to break the ice. Well, to admit it or to confess, I have never been a person to love reading HISTORY, GEOGRAPHY, WAR or TRAVEL type of books. And this book has almost all of these things and I held it high in my hands reading it over long late nights, wishing day not to end like this, getting scoldings from Parents for indulging too much into a book, hiding myself and pretending to be asleep sometimes to rescue from the taunts, I read the book that was very aptly descriptive neither too heavy nor too shallow. The imaginary descriptions awesomely transfuse to distill historic spiritual essence to transform the wholesomeness of actual momentary situations into the actuality of real world making them appear in front of your eyes as you read them. May it be the war, the wit, friendliness, faith or the dance of the Neelkanth it all transforms as real in the description without stretching it beyond reasons.
The story has newness yet wasn't vague. The historic heroes and other characters were very well defined, characterized, played into the plot that was not ditto to what any of us would have heard or seen as a story of Lord Shiva. Having seen the series of show Devon ke Dev Mahadev on Life OK channel I am well acquainted with the whole story. Yet Shiva and Sati of this new modern story are different yet similarly spiritual and soulful.
The part that touched me deeply-Ram rajya and the policies framed by Lord Rama. Having seen the caste system prevailing in INDIA since decades and surely going to go on for don't-know-how-long, what Amish wrote was such a perfect policy for the perfect empire like Meluhans'. I wished if the Karma of human being actually decided the fate of profession they would be in then many wouldn't have suffered in the past nor would have they been suffered this way in present and not in mere future. But well..  that's the PERFECT scenario... Still, it felt good to know the perfect scenario!
The Vikarma system-untouchable it's was and is indeed very strange one, the logic, the following of same in the society, it's difficult to curb it. Only Neelkanth could erase it but not from real India.
The fiction that Amish added, it's perfection make me feel whether the real GOD forgot to imbibe those principles in lives of humanity before their extinction for the real India still suffers from so much from it's vague beliefs that humanity is still in danger. Well, may be only God knows, whether he forgot or we forgot...
The death of Brihaspati was indeed shocking and sad. The friendship shown between Shiva and him was affectionately sweet and lovely. A friend anyone would want to have.
The faith of people of Meluhans' in the Neelkanth led normal man Shiva drive ahead and lead the humanity to free them from the EVIL. Shiva's past-the nightmare he get was the transformation of a child into man and yet the guilt remained forever which was also an essential for him to lead his destiny to save Meluhans'.
Sati, strong yet delicate, cultural yet revolting, loving yet opposing, supportive yet a thinker, daughter of King yet accepted the title of Vikarma. One of the wonderful character Amish has plot with the suspense of she being the Vikarma, her culture, her sacrifices, her dignity, her love, her support, everything about SATI was a learning for me as a woman, as an Indian woman.
Love of Shiva & Sati has always touched me deeply as a person who believes in soulmates. The attempt to sacrifice her life for Shiva by Sati and then Shiva's immense faith in saving Sati's life even though everyone gave up all hope was really touching phase.
The first part ends with the suspense whether the Nagas are the real evil if not the Chandravanshi?

P.S.: One thing I felt that could have been better is the cover of the book. Since Amish has depicted the importance of THE NEELKANTH so much in the book, the faith of people in people him by mere his name. I wish the cover pic would have been that of The Neelkanth than this one! (Just a thought being a complete reader whom title as well as cover too matters along with the story! ;-))
Well, I am not giving any sort of recommendations whether you should read this book or not but with the given summary of the same you felt like you can feed your brain with something from this one then go for it, for everyone has different taste and preferences in reading. You may sometimes experiment with your taste though, who knows you might like it? ;-)

Happy Reading! :-)

July 28, 2015

Planning for life

It's very essential to have a plan for your life.
Being alive it's such a wonderful feeling... 😊
Since I'm alive and want to live life to it's fullest it's essential that I draw rough route to where I want to head in this journey of life and then as I come close to the turns I may take decisions and make those rough goals into final decisive ones and step ahead in the journey...
The plan that you carve may not have most of the real difficulties that you're going to face but then as you come across them you may realize about them and accordingly prepare yourself for future.
One thing that should be understood its, disheartening will not help you. No matter how difficult it becomes too walk, no matter how hard the path becomes, no matter how unhappy and unfaithful life seems, no matter how unwanted and meaningless you find yourself in this world, no matter how useless you think you're... But the reality it's, you've a ROLE to play and this role leads through these paths, sometimes meaningless, sometimes meaningful, whatever or its, you've to LIVE!