Those who say about themselves and/or those whom others say that they are selfish, are they really selfish COMPLETELY?!
It is easy to think about our own selfish needs with regards to materialistic things BUT when it comes to VALUE, MORALE, CULTURE, CHARACTER, etc., terms, almost everyone become selfless and want OTHER person to have those in them than thinking about oneself, isn't it?
Why can't we be selfish when it comes to showing good character, having good values, imbibing great morale into us? We all want others to understand and behave properly to us all the time whilst save ourself from every situation with some excuse. Rather it's that we hardly think about ourself and our behaviour and always try to point out our index on others and find faults in their wrong doings, correct them than either try to think from their point of view or think of how we as an individual could have changed the scenario from being ruined, do we? Do we think what can we improve in ourself today? Do you think about the day at it's end and just think of good things you did and about the not so good moments how could they be improved by yourself only solely by you changing something in you, may it be your perspective towards that situation or any small act or a positive thought or just forgiving the person who did something not acceptable, do we?
Indeed the answer lies inside us...
Sometimes it's good to be selfish you see... ;)
Just think about YOU first then about others!
Ciao!
It is easy to think about our own selfish needs with regards to materialistic things BUT when it comes to VALUE, MORALE, CULTURE, CHARACTER, etc., terms, almost everyone become selfless and want OTHER person to have those in them than thinking about oneself, isn't it?
Why can't we be selfish when it comes to showing good character, having good values, imbibing great morale into us? We all want others to understand and behave properly to us all the time whilst save ourself from every situation with some excuse. Rather it's that we hardly think about ourself and our behaviour and always try to point out our index on others and find faults in their wrong doings, correct them than either try to think from their point of view or think of how we as an individual could have changed the scenario from being ruined, do we? Do we think what can we improve in ourself today? Do you think about the day at it's end and just think of good things you did and about the not so good moments how could they be improved by yourself only solely by you changing something in you, may it be your perspective towards that situation or any small act or a positive thought or just forgiving the person who did something not acceptable, do we?
Indeed the answer lies inside us...
Sometimes it's good to be selfish you see... ;)
Just think about YOU first then about others!
Ciao!
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