One of my cousin, who met me last year for the first time at one of another cousins marriage and we shared our contact. Like whole world around me, he too is on Watsapp. He always starts interviewing me and bombard with all sort of interrogations. I've myself hardly noticed what's my favourite color, food, place, subject, TV show, movie, etc etc but when he asks I've to answer it as I can't ignore him. Otherwise I've created record in avoiding unknown messengers, but he is family so I had to entertain, though only upto a limit I can! I think and answer. But all of sudden, a weird question came up today and it was, don't you have a boyfriend? More than being shocked for this question I was laughing, it sounded funny. Rather than answering I kept smiling for few mins looking at the question. Finally I typed, what's reality and that is NO!
I wondered what he might have thought of me that me being a girl from Mumbai, big city it's deemed that I would be in relationship! Even if it would be fake one but still it's kinda in fashion these days to employ yourself a boyfriend or a girlfriend. If you don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend then you're not cool, isn't it? Well don't know... Never pondered much about it. I have male friends but good that they're just friends and nothing more coz I liked it that way and happy that it remained so. Of course future can always be different and surprising but I have my own choices and preferences and it would be difficult for someone to fit into it! :-P
As for I don't believe in messaging unknowns and somehow just chatting with them and then you end up meeting and blah blah... It's all crap... I believe into only talking and sharing with people whom I know very personally, whom I've seen in real, talked in real. That's the way I like it to be. I've heard people being friends on some social networking sites and then they share their contact and along with chatting, they start talking and may be even meet but then either of one shows true picture and the whole think come out to be fake and baseless and other end up being hurt. What rubbish! I hate all such things and whether hurt or whatever I never except unknown calls, never reply messages from unknowns, block people on Watsapp who message me but whom I don't know, yes I've done that! It's better to avoid any fake things before it starts than waste your time. Life is too short to waste behind trying to know someone whom you never knew! There are many people in my life whom I know and I'm happy that they're in my life and I would love to find time to maintain my relationship with them rather than go for some fake ones.
For fun I can't imagine of getting in relationship with someone. As I always say, NO relationship is better than BAD relationship!
I'm happy SINGLE. Very happy in fact! :-)
Everything has it's right time in your Life and when that time comes you do end up being into it and enjoy that new experience. Till then enjoy present and hope best for the future! :-)
P. S. Try to find real happiness rather than get trapped into fiction world. It could be dangerous sometimes. Social networks are to be in touch with those whom you knew but are away from you. So stay in touch with your loved ones and make better use of technology.
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