Silence speaks in loudly...

It always felt necessary to give detailed explanation for any acts done for anything intended to do. Just for sake of avoiding any misunderstanding and misconceptions. To have clear understanding everything was said and explained clearly. That's needed it felt. Also similar acts were EXPECTED in return.

Afterwards now...

Nothing is said, directly done...
Nothing is explained, everything is understood... Even if not understood there is no more fear of any happening of misunderstanding!
No expostulations are asked for nor given any!
Not all feelings are expressed but supposed to remain in for now it's understood well that FEW FEELINGS ARE WELL EXPLAINED THROUGH SILENCE...

SILENCE IS POWERFUL... MOST POWERFUL THAN WORDS COULD SPEAK!

From dark to DAWN...

When there is darkness it really seems like there might never be a dawn... You forget what morning looks like.? What day light was like? And biggest fear that always surrounds is, WHETHER THERE WILL BE DAWN BREAKING?
Slowly you try to get adjusted to the night... Find hope in the moon and on no moon days even in small stars...
Then... Then you decide to keep up the hope coz that is what you know is the essence. You remember that you're not the only one in the dark nor you've been alone not you'll be... People came here, stayed for as long as it was destined and then they did saw their victory sun... This victory sun of theirs, which gives you the hope, nothing and no one else can give. That feels like something usual... Phew! It gives you some air to breathe. YOU'RE NOT ALONE... YOU'VE NOT BEEN ALONE... YOU'LL NOT BE ALONE... YES, this sounds normal. You can breathe now... You feel good that if you've not been the only one to be in the dark then probably you'll not have to be the only one to remain in this dark forever as well... DAWN WILL BREAK  UPON ME, you exclaim. You go through the journey of those who have successfully returned back in the best phase. KEEP THE HOPE... BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE FOR FEW DON'T HAVE AND HAD EVEN THIS... BE GRATEFUL... GRATITUDE WILL LIFT YOUR LIFE TO WHERE YOU WANT TO BE OR EVEN AHEAD OF WHERE YOU DREAM TO BE!
You determine, no matter what I'll be grateful; because if you realise then you'll accept that you've been blessed with so many things even if you feel you are in the worst of situations. You start to thank for what you had. Slowly you stated appreciating the stars that are still there for you... Then the moon too... And you remember the sun that was there. You understand that you never appreciated the sun when you had... You thank it... keep thanking... keep hoping... keep dreaming... keep being the best you could be...
AND THEN YOU NEVER REALISE WHEN SLOWLY THE SUN DAWNED.... Piercing the clouds, thick and dark ones... It came all the way fighting for you coz YOU REMEMBERED IT. YOU THANKED IT FOR WHAT HE DID, YOU MISSED IT AND IT WANTED TO LISTEN MORE OF THE THANK YOU from you...
YOU FEEL ALIVE AGAIN... YOU FEEL GREAT... ON THE TOP OF THE WORLD and then you just forget all the pains you faced and remember your learning...
Be grateful for whatever you have, you'll get more reasons to be thankful for...
YOU SAY THANK YOU FROM THE DEPTH OF YOUR HEART AND IT REACHES ANOTHER HEART...😀

Who are you?

Sometimes you don't know what it is that life want you to do. You need to search your objectives but trust me it's not an easy job!
May be you just need to take a deep breath, take a bag pack (of thoughts) and start moving.
May be now waiting for the correct time is not sufficient. You need to move your feet.
Search yourself in every nook and corner of the world and decide if this is THE REAL YOU!

Women

A woman is like a water!
She is flexible enough to take the shape you want to shape in.
She is adaptable enough to take the color you want to color in.
She is soft at times and she can be harsh with its forces.
She has her own flow for her life.
She gives life to many.
She can even be harmful at times if in excess... (LOL! If you know what I mean? ;-))

She cannot be trapped and stopped with the force.

She is pure and beautiful when flows in her direction where she intends to go!

Without a women in your life in any form, your life is incomplete, isn't it? :-)

Learn to reply...

When someone is giving you their time, make a note to respect it and never ever walk out leaving them waiting for you whereas you either don't care about their wait or become too innocent to not have noticed about it. In any situation you will lose your integrity...

Being Selfish

Those who say about themselves and/or those whom others say that they are selfish, are they really selfish COMPLETELY?!
It is easy to think about our own selfish needs with regards to materialistic things BUT when it comes to VALUE, MORALE, CULTURE, CHARACTER, etc., terms, almost everyone become selfless and want OTHER person to have those in them than thinking about oneself, isn't it?

Why can't we be selfish when it comes to showing good character, having good values, imbibing great morale into us? We all want others to understand and behave properly to us all the time whilst save ourself from every situation with some excuse. Rather it's that we hardly think about ourself and our behaviour and always try to point out our index on others and find faults in their wrong doings, correct them than either try to think from their point of view or think of how we as an individual could have changed the scenario from being ruined, do we? Do we think what can we improve in ourself today? Do you think about the day at it's end and just think of good things you did and about the not so good moments how could they be improved by yourself only solely by you changing something in you, may it be your perspective towards that situation or any small act or a positive thought or just forgiving the person who did something not acceptable, do we?

Indeed the answer lies inside us...

Sometimes it's good to be selfish you see... ;)
Just think about YOU first then about others!

Ciao!

SOMETIMES BE SAD!

Agreeing and accepting as well as following positivity in life, the difficult phase comes when life is unfair to you and all your positivity seems to drain for a moment and you don't want to think even a single thing that is good but want to focus and accept clearly and truly that YES, MY LIFE IS SUCKING!
 I GUESS SOMETIMES ITS OKAY TO GIVE UP ON LONG PRECONCEIVED HOPES AND ACCEPT THE FAILURES YOU'VE GOT... SOMETIMES THE BAD MAKES FEEL GOOD WHEN THOUGHT OF... SOMETIMES JUST THINKING OF ALL THE THINGS THAT HAS SCREWED YOU REAL TIME SINCE LONG BUT YOU'VE TRIED TO IGNORE THEM JUST BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO BE POSITIVE... SOMETIMES IT FEELS BETTER TO SHED TEARS... SOMETIMES IT FEELS LIGHTER TO WET PILLOW... SOMETIMES IT FEELS GOOD TO CRIB ABOUT EVERYTHING.. SOMETIMES IT BECOMES IMPORTANT TO BE SAD, TO ACCEPT YOUR TRUE FEELINGS...

P.S.: Not ALWAYS, just SOMETIMES!

Resentment

Why it so happens that the more you try to keep patience the more you feel it being tested?
Reaching a juncture of life where everything looks only blur and there seems no correct path nor the road you've taken for so long seem to take you anywhere and you don't know if there is any alternate route available or if you can even try on new way or either you should discover one!
This confusion... It suffocates sometimes!
And worst part... ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH... Even if you try to tell about it to someone, they either underestimate it and could not relate to your feelings or they try to give you the sympathy which just don't help anyways.
*SIGH*
Over the top... YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW IF EVER SOMETHING WILL CHANGE FOR THE BETTER...

It feels damn funny when you look back at your life and feel that life has changes so drastically and yet ironically you get the feeling that nothing has changed since so long and life is just PAUSED!

Thankful to almighty

Life has so many incidences...
They're chapters to our story written by God. And every chapter has a moral. If the moral is leant then chapter gets closed and new one begins. If the moral is not leant, the chapter keeps going...

Until we serve the life's purpose the story doesn't end.

I'm thankful to each chapter and the moral I've learning. Good or bad, whatever the experience has been, the joinery of life always have amazed me with its surprises, with the ups and downs, with the twist and turns, with the dead ends and the new discovery of paths... 😊

Every single life seems means to our soul's learning which reaches its destination in our last life when we learn our last lessons and may be reach to a great heights as a person or living being.

Don't fall...

Never fall so much for someone or something that your own individuality is lost and you neither find respect from others nor you recognize your self respect!