Forgiveness...

A scene on a daily soap, HIT ME HARD deep inside...  Couldn't stop from sharing it at this place which is so much MINE... ☺

THE HUSBAND returns after years ever since he got frustrated and left his WIFE & a very young daughter of 2-3 year old who were not only dependent on him for finances but also for LOVE and expected a normal life. After he returns the wife goes into the flashback and remembers how she BEGGED to him to not leave them alone.

So strange i felt after watching the scene... 
A PERSON decides to leave everything because he is frustrated of everything and everyone around. He wanted to get rid of EVERYONE and be alone. BUT when he was alone he understood what he had lost!
Well this theory is altogether different but what KNOCKED me was, HE RETURNED BACK, he returned to home, to parents, to wife, to child, to normal life. He returned to a second chance... BUT....  But do he deserve it? This is what strike me... 
Two thoughts...
First, NO, he should be abandoned. He left coz he thought he had choice whether he wanted to give love and affection that was his first duty towards his family. So now his family should also get equal right to choose, him or no more of him.
Second, YES, he returned coz he LEARNT life isn't about leaving the battle field and running away but about fighting the battle together with the help of loved ones. He learned the LESSON.

Second one mature understanding but equally difficult to implement. First one a general perception or line of action. It's always easy to follow general perception BUT it's not a cake walk to do second one.
Funny fact is, IT'S MUCH MORE EASIER TO HAVE A THIRD PERSON VIEW, like am doing right now, AND CONCLUDE ON WHAT COULD BE DONE OR WHAT SHOULD BE DONE BUT ACTUAL FACT IS ONE WHO BEARS ONLY KNOWS WHAT TO BE DONE...

Well one thing is foresure LIFE ISN'T THAT EASY... 😂