Give me a break!

Sometimes life seems so messed up that you yourself think that you don't know what is happening with you, around you... Everything is out of your control. Everything is driven by some outer force and you lack any type of control from your own life!
You only know that it's messed up but don't know how to undo the knots, how to sort out things and make life, what is called, SIMPLE!
Each and everything around is giving you bad feelings, negative vibes. You don't like the way things around you are. You don't like the people around you. You don't like events happening with you. You just don't like anything.
In such a situation how to take back control of everything? How to bring back life in your life?
How to become that cheerful person that once you were, whom everyone loved?
How to be the best and do best of all?
How to map again your dreams new way?
How to lead the path, though alone but with confidence?
How to forget all regrets of past and move ahead on the path of future and color the future with new, fresh and lively colors that not only brighten your life but also of others around you?
How...?