Inspired living!

Slowly when I observe myself I realize how much I've changed over the years. And thankfully these changes are on good and better side of ME! And may be for people associated with me as well.
I love to introspect, what I was? How am I now? Is the change making me a better person and making my life better to myself as well as those around me? Do I need to change the change more? What else I think I should change into ME? And so many other questions...
And mostly the questions generate when I get inspired by others. When I see and observe any person and when my heart says Wow! What a great person he/she is for a particular thing that they have in them, indeed when you just see only a particular role of a person you never know if they are best in all their roles. Hence whatever role they play in my life if I happen to like that and feel inspired this in itself is a reason to believe that they are good in that role at least. Of course I believe in that saying, No man is perfect! But there is this saying as well that there is something good in every human being.
And I always believe in looking at that good side, and when I feel that the person is better than me in a particular regard as I feel inspired about something in them that make me realise is not in ME hence I feel inspired. Then I keep that thing as a benchmark for me and try to see to it that I should be like that! I guess that's the use of knowing what you like. If you just end up praising others for good in them and know that you lack in it and it would be good and satisfying if you too would have been so but you did not try or even think of changing but just end up praising them then it would be of no use!
I always think that anything that inspires me is an indication that ME is not better in it or else I would have felt normal about they being so. For I'm not better in something that I like is not a good sign to continue living in such incompleteness. Soon I try and try to know how and what I need to achieve to reach that level? On opportunities I try to grab them and see to it that I react differently which could mean I'm taking the path that I've designed.
Life is about learning. With every second passing by there happen so many incidents around us, if we observe we can learn very much from them but if we just end up being dead about them then probably we may be what we were.
I strongly believe in changing even if it would mean for changing for others. Until it could prove to me that this change would be good and would give value to ME and my living I would not mind even changing for others for that matter few say you should not change yourself for others, I feel there isn't any harm in changing for others if they could give you reasons for you to change and make you believe that life around you would be more simple with that change.
Keep changing, it's good to be one who changes with time and circumstances! Remember there isn't any rigid rule to live life, make your own rules and live it for your better as well & or people around. As human beings are ought to be a social animal and will remain so.
It's good to change for others whom you love! Yes, but never think about changing others until they think that they need to. As much possible think about bring change in you. Rather than always finding out mistakes in others let us know what and how could we improve. Be Selfish, be better and improve yourself than to change others as that would make you a better person. So be better and let others be how they want to be.