Marriage celebration cum school reunion

Saturday morning, 27th Feb, 2016, on the wheels were Prati, Sara, Kanchi, Nutu and me... As we left behind our respective houses, slowly after years it was when we all were together. Heading towards the event of one of our school days friend Suppu's wedding. We all seated comfortable in Prati's Amaze which actually amazed us while she drove. It was so much fun to be together after so many years. Everyone was busy in their lives and different career that they chose post our SSC. Though few of us were in touch but not all. Ideally we should be talking about our lives or at least about the old days but... .... they were yawning. Indeed Saturday weekend is meant to be relaxing while we forced ourselves to get up on usual time of weekdays and get ready. Not that getting ready was a matter of complaint, it could never be for girls 😜 but getting otta bed was surely a pain. The other peer pressure to keep us silent was TO-SAVE-MAKEUP-TILL-THE-LAST-CLICK... yeah we took pains to get ready, look hot and gorgeous in our own ways and the mission was to get the best shot at the reception. There were hours left and we didn't wanted to ruin our morning efforts of hours that we took sacrificing our precious sleep. But girls can never be completely quite as well no matter even if their makeup is at high stake... 😅 The mouth opener was outdated songs that were being played by Prati. Agreed that she gave us a ride but that doesn't mean to give us headache with those songs from 80's or 90's. We made faces and comments came from everyone on each song being played... Fun was getting started. The fact that we were all together was the good reason for us to know that we all were back to the memories of our childhood. While I took different selfie of everyone from the front, Nutu was damn busy with her phone, checking out her makeup, Sara, despite threatening her that her makeup will be ruined doze off, Kancu is a silent one. So me and Prati were only left with chatting. We are school days best buddies. I was more of observing how she was driving. IT WAS FREAKING AWESOME MAN! I said myself. I was completely mesmerised and went to the day dream of myself driving a car and taking my parents and friend out with me.
Well, secondary if they would risk their lives to fulfill my dream. 😂 I do feel it's a great task to drive, that too a four wheeler it's much big task, to manage accelerator, gear, steering, everything along with being present minded on road as well as inside with the passengers, but on the other hand I feel it's what do many people could do so it'll not be that difficult too.😉🙆

As we reached, getting out of car was as if someone put us to furnace, it was HOT. We climbed upstairs and reached the hall. All our eyes wanted to see was our friend Suppu in the bridal look. There was time for it, we were thirsty and there came tray of soft drink and two of us picked the orange ones while others were black. Other girls too wanted orange one, they waited... Came the next guy with only one orange filled glass... Again few waited. Finally next time he brought all orange glasses... Hehehe.... Yeah we love orange one, all of us. We slowly started our philosophies about marriage, the theme effect probably. Few said they hate it, few said they will wait for it, few happy about it while few with no thought about it. We all had our own perception about it. Though we all agreed... EK DIN KARNI PADEGI-NO MATTER WHAT! 😂 This is India after all.
Our bride came and like every bride, she was looking the most beautiful. It was her day indeed. She was the heroine of the event. The traditional Maharashtrian wedding started. We had other three Maharashtrian buddies in the group. Sitting next to Prati, I was asking her about the meaning of the ceremony, though less knowledge we have about the ceremony but I was excited about the whole event. I love to see the marriage  ritual being performed. I just get divine feeling. As it's said, "MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN BUT PERFORMED ON EARTH." So was this ceremony taking place on earth in front of us. The wishes came straight from the heart while witnessing the wedding for our friend,"Love is wonderful to be fallen in,
But more pleasurable is the journey to live that love within...
The divinity of a marriage have thrived from heaven to earth,
May your life blossom in this relationship ahead in this path..."
We all showered the colourful rice slowly on the couple on it being said, "SHUBH MANGAL SAVADHAN" by the Pandit. It felt funny and cute to do like that. I've seen and heard about it on TV before.
After the ceremony of SAATH PHERE the bride and groom went to get ready for the reception. In between for those who got bored and were yawning we clicked lots of selfie and Nutu clicked best pics of our newly married couple. They not only looked beautiful but were very notorious and looked very happy together.
Our stomachs were roaring for the food. Meanwhile stepping towards it we met one of our school teacher. She was very happy to see us all grown up from little girls to young ladies. Indeed she don't recognise us but it's not expected either. Faces are always remembered though names might get forgotten.
We ate our stomach full. The food was delicious. Sara and I had more of our focus on the desert, being it's fan. It was Strawberry Basundi, a new experience.   YUMMMMMMM....
We stepped back to the reception, alive for the click on the stage. There was long que which we all hate but couldn't help. Doing masti together diverted our focus and we reached the couples quicker than we thought. We congratulated the couples. Our friend who looked gorgeous from far shocked us from near view. MAKEUP over and above required was put up. This became the gossip amongst us as we drove back...
We fought for the next song to be played, we cheered up for even the saddest songs.
Most exciting number was, "CHADHI MUJHE YAARI TERI AISI JAISE DARU DESI... We shouted the lyrics in sync as it was what we felt. Even before this trip ends we had more plans being made. Our dream being making road trip to GOGOGOGOGOAAAAAAAA...
Without much ado everyone dragged me for movie NEERJA. I wanted to see it but I had told home will be back at evening which got into late evening as movie ended around 8pm! I didn't wanted to see this movie on that day, because we had such blasting day and watching a serious movie like this will shift the mood from north pole to south I knew. But we wanted to see a movie together and it was it. We were all in shock as it ended. I MISSED MY MUM so much during whole movie. I wanted to hug her tightly. I LOVE HER THE MOST... MMMMUUUAAAHHHH MOM 😘

We hugged  each other bye and the day became one of the most memorable one to be recorded in here on my blog.😊

Of love...

Your whole life you try to find someone who can love you immensely and who can be with you through all roughs and smooths. You turn whole your world upside down and love so much that you loose yourself in this process, in making each other ONE!
But in this whole process you completely forget yourself...
The worst is not losing someone you love but it's losing yourself in the process of loving someone...
Until you find love and self respect in  yourself for you, you won't be able to find true love. And when you realise your own love in your heart there won't come any need to find something outside when you have it in ample for yourself.

Most difficult thing is not to love someone forever but to love yourself the most than anyone can ever to you or you to someone!

This Valentine be special for yourself!😊

Silence speaks in loudly...

It always felt necessary to give detailed explanation for any acts done for anything intended to do. Just for sake of avoiding any misunderstanding and misconceptions. To have clear understanding everything was said and explained clearly. That's needed it felt. Also similar acts were EXPECTED in return.

Afterwards now...

Nothing is said, directly done...
Nothing is explained, everything is understood... Even if not understood there is no more fear of any happening of misunderstanding!
No expostulations are asked for nor given any!
Not all feelings are expressed but supposed to remain in for now it's understood well that FEW FEELINGS ARE WELL EXPLAINED THROUGH SILENCE...

SILENCE IS POWERFUL... MOST POWERFUL THAN WORDS COULD SPEAK!

From dark to DAWN...

When there is darkness it really seems like there might never be a dawn... You forget what morning looks like.? What day light was like? And biggest fear that always surrounds is, WHETHER THERE WILL BE DAWN BREAKING?
Slowly you try to get adjusted to the night... Find hope in the moon and on no moon days even in small stars...
Then... Then you decide to keep up the hope coz that is what you know is the essence. You remember that you're not the only one in the dark nor you've been alone not you'll be... People came here, stayed for as long as it was destined and then they did saw their victory sun... This victory sun of theirs, which gives you the hope, nothing and no one else can give. That feels like something usual... Phew! It gives you some air to breathe. YOU'RE NOT ALONE... YOU'VE NOT BEEN ALONE... YOU'LL NOT BE ALONE... YES, this sounds normal. You can breathe now... You feel good that if you've not been the only one to be in the dark then probably you'll not have to be the only one to remain in this dark forever as well... DAWN WILL BREAK  UPON ME, you exclaim. You go through the journey of those who have successfully returned back in the best phase. KEEP THE HOPE... BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE FOR FEW DON'T HAVE AND HAD EVEN THIS... BE GRATEFUL... GRATITUDE WILL LIFT YOUR LIFE TO WHERE YOU WANT TO BE OR EVEN AHEAD OF WHERE YOU DREAM TO BE!
You determine, no matter what I'll be grateful; because if you realise then you'll accept that you've been blessed with so many things even if you feel you are in the worst of situations. You start to thank for what you had. Slowly you stated appreciating the stars that are still there for you... Then the moon too... And you remember the sun that was there. You understand that you never appreciated the sun when you had... You thank it... keep thanking... keep hoping... keep dreaming... keep being the best you could be...
AND THEN YOU NEVER REALISE WHEN SLOWLY THE SUN DAWNED.... Piercing the clouds, thick and dark ones... It came all the way fighting for you coz YOU REMEMBERED IT. YOU THANKED IT FOR WHAT HE DID, YOU MISSED IT AND IT WANTED TO LISTEN MORE OF THE THANK YOU from you...
YOU FEEL ALIVE AGAIN... YOU FEEL GREAT... ON THE TOP OF THE WORLD and then you just forget all the pains you faced and remember your learning...
Be grateful for whatever you have, you'll get more reasons to be thankful for...
YOU SAY THANK YOU FROM THE DEPTH OF YOUR HEART AND IT REACHES ANOTHER HEART...😀