Teri Meri Kahani Shayaries...

Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 1.

Pehli baar hum kisise kaise, kab, kahaan, kis life mein miltein hain yeh humein bhi nahi pata
Aur unhein hum phir kaise, kab, kahaan, kis life main miltein hain.


Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 2.

Khuda ne jab tujhe banaya hoga
Ek sooroor uske dil mein aaya hoga
Socha hoga kya doonga tohfe main tujhe
Tab jaake usne mujhe banaya hoga.


Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 3.

Aap humein bhool jao humein koi gum nahi,
Jis din humney aapko bhoola diya samajh lijiyega is duniya mein hum nahi.


Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 4.

Na jagte huye khwaab dekha kar
Na chaho use jise pa na sako
Pyar kahhan kisi ka poora hota hain?
Pyar ka pehla akshar adhoora hota hain


Loved the Shayaries in the movie, but could find only these on net.
Movie was OK-OK!

Just before Marriage

"I'm getting married in few days, let me enjoy these left over days of being single. Then lemme have a bachelors party, etc, etc... "
Funnily I don't understand that why people get married at first place if they think that getting married will not let them live freely and they are in future not gonna live life the way they want to live! Whats the use in doing something which will not make you happy but you are thinking that lets enjoy the remaining days, kya pata kal ho na ho ;) :P

Strange People, Stranger Life, Strangest rules of living this Life!
Phew!!!!
Life Sometimes really SUCKS!!!!!!!!! :/

Irresponsible People...

What to say, I seriously don't have anymore patience with me to describe it.
I took the doctors appointment of 9.30am we reached on time after 2hours of travelling! But the Doctor didn't! Almost, after an hour we could see him coming. What is all this nonsense? I thought! But I was left to be more annoyed when he came and declared to his assistant that he'll come after taking round in the hospital. He came after almost more 45 minutes! I was very very angry. But it's of no use, my brain said to me!
Next day I went for the tests of all thousand types there they called me at 9.30am, as usual I reached on time in fact 15 mins early. But what they said to me was shocking, ie the Doctor will come at 10.30am, then why the hell! did you call me at 9.30am when the Doctor itself will not be coming then! I was not in a situation of waiting there nor could I go back home and come again after an hour. Somehow I passed away time and waited. After the tests I asked for the reports and the receptionist said that  after an hour I'll get back the reports. I thought who'll stay back again for an hour and neither could I come back after an hour so I decided to collect them in the evening when I was to get other reports as well!
I came back to collect the reports at 8pm, now this was above my control to ever bear. They asked me to wait, I was waiting and it was almost half an hour that passed there waiting for reports but still they didn't had any word for me as to when they'll give me the reports after that when I asked back then they said that come tomorrow! What rubbish! I busted out, I've already informed that in any condition I want the reports now and today itself, next day morning I already have an appointment with the Doctor! I even mentioned that you were to give me reports in the morning itself and now it was post 9pm still they are making report what's all this?
Of course I still had to wait as they woke up from their sleep when I reached there and then started making the report and test itself took 45mins then report preparation had to take time as well!
But I seriously wanted to kill them all! What is this attitude I didn't understand! I very well showed them on their face how irritated I was with their attitude, even scolded them for wasting others time as if they were doing some charity work!

My IRRITATION

My stomach was full than it should be and I realised that I had more than enough for myself! Wanted to stay on the bed before I could die. Soon, remembered that there are books in my shelf, all dying for me to pick them up and read ever since my exams are over, and it means from the past one whole month. I dragged myself up and crawled to find one, took the one which I once read but the only first chapter, for exams were dancing on my head to read modules than any other outta portion book and I killed my excitement then and read only first chapter and courageously kept it back. Now! I remembered about it back and grabbed it out of the heap, shuffled pages and started reading the second chapter as I realised I could very well remember what the first one was all about. In the swing of reading I somehow forgot that my stomach was aching and continued reading and was happy about it but then soon happiness went to rest as my eyes were dropping down, even though I said No, I don't want to sleep but want to read this such-an-interesting-book but my mind and eye could not obey each other and I folded the page on which I was then and decided to sleep for a while and then continue later when I'm fresh than to drag myself and kill the enjoyment. I folded the page of the book, drifted it down the sofa and closed my eyes. But before I could sleep, I realised that I'm not comfortable with the pillow I was having beneath my head and if I were to sleep in this condition I would surely get a headace or a neckace when I'm up. That means I'm supposed to get outta my bed now and get my pillow from the next room. OH NO! Nothing could be more irritating than getting up from the bed when you are dyingly asleep. But I had to! I settled down with my pillow, comfortably! Soon I was in my dreamland, there was pin drop silence in the room. I loved it. Soon my dreams shattered and somebody switched on the TV. I have this bad disease in me that I can never sleep if ever someone is watching TV, murmuring, whispering, talking, or even turning pages of a book or newspaper, my younger brother do all these stuffs and had irritated me and disturbed my sleep always with all these acts, but this time it was guest at home who did it, knowingly or unknowingly I don't care as well! All I know is I was sleeping and somebody disturbed me and even though I try to control my self by counting 100 or even 500 does not work for me in these situations and I said in not so loudly way but in a manner that I was irritated, to control the volume of TV if don't have common sense to not start it when someone is sleeping. Somehow I got back in my sleep which is very difficult but still I managed this time. Sooner than 10 min after that the telephone rang! Could you imagine this! My sleep broke again. I wanted to throw out the telephone along with my mobile phone which was beeping once and then with some stupid text messages! But I can't I know! I got up and picked up the phone which was barking continuously even though I was up and approaching to pick it up. It was my Dad and I was half asleep but fully irritated. I somehow heard things he said but unbearable was that he wanted me to search his PAN card and text him the no. I hanged up the phone and in no good mood went to his bed room to find one and then text the same. Oh! I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS! Still I had to, and more irritating was that I could not find it not because I was not in mood of finding but because my Dad and my brothers and their stuffs are always misplaced and difficult to find at once. I shouted and cursed this habit of all men on this earth, decide not to marry any such person who could be so irresponsible, soon realised all men are same, irresponsible and mismanaged. Finally, I found it almost after searching the whole cupboard of his and text it. Again went to my bed but I and the whole world around me know that now even if the God come down and make me sleep I could not ever! I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS!
More irritating is when someone tries to talk to me when I'm just out of my sleep. I'm a species
who don't ever want to utter a word at least till next half an hour. I just want to keep quite. I don't like to talk when I get up, I just keep quite, no movement, no word, no response, nothing. Just a silence. But people try my patience in this as well! Why should I speak? I don't understand! I HATE THIS!

Interesting Pics!

Just found some interesting Pics of Random Category, thought of Sharing!

Movies I watched recently

1. Kahani= Loved it! Full of suspense...
As usual Vidya (and not Bidya! ;)) RocKsss...!!!!

2. Ishqzade= Old wine in new bottle!
 But then liked it a bit as it has been such a long time since there has been a movie where they showed that there exists FAMILY in the life of the characters and this family matters to them, the family also plays role in their life. Finally, they die in love with each other. Full-to emotional drama... after a long time... But nothing new... :(

3. Not a love story= Unknowingly I watched it.
In spite of it being RGV Movie thats because I came to know about it when I started watching it, so thought of giving a try. Soon thought of quitting from ever experimenting with my taste. It was not my type so I of course didn't liked. Even though the title clearly said that "its not a love story" still I attempted to see it then I deserve to see this movie completely! ;( I am still confused with the title as could not relate it.
But then at the end one incident hit my brain (really! :o) and that was when the two Lawyers play with their clients for their benefit. I never ever thought this could happen, but now I feel this might be happening , undoubtedly!

4. Jhootha Hi Sahi= CUTE
Not all that great but a halka-phulka one-time watch... I doubt these days if any movie is there which could be watched more than once, but being watched as once is not less compliment as there does exists movies which could not be watched once completely unless you are truely very courageous and determined person. (like 'Not a Love Story! :/)

5. Desi Boyz= OKAY-DOKAY (just being kind :D)
Liked the lil boy very much, rest Akshay was not over-acting, liked him a bit. Dips as usual ZERO expression, John, anyone would run behind Dips only if he is been paid for doing so, he did the same, I can understand John! Same old story of Main Hoon Na, Older age Student, young Teacher and the Affair between them. Phew! Bored!
End was worst!

6. Will you marry me?= (this is the name of a movie, don't get excited, OKAY!)
Movie covered many things and liked the pace of the movie, ok-ok one, but it had that new flavour in it! Rajeev's role was unexpected one, he being the Bad boy, Mugdha Godse, she being Bad girl was also a surprise! Over all, unemployed like me can pass their time by watching it once!


7. Kuch Love Jaisa= Stupid
What to say? :( Had too much expectations looking at the cast and after listening to it's music but all shattered after watching the movie. I hated it! :/

8. Vicky Donor= New story
1st Half, time-pass and embarrassing as well, please watch it all alone (thank God, I did)
2nd Half, Good, Emotional, Cute pairing of debutante!
Loved the way Dr. runs behind Ayushmaan and convince him.
Also, it shows how important couple feels that they should have a BABY of their own! :)

9. London Paris New York= CUTE
Loved Ali Zafar! ;) His looks, fair complexion, dialogue delivery, more than anything Sense of Humor! :D
Aditi Rao Hydari was also ok-ok, hated her Paris look! Rest she looked cute, carried nice attitude. But I don't understand one thing, why do they need to show people being DRUNK in movies? So much, that too females, it's just-not-acceptable-portray-of-women-for-me! :/ :/ :/ I hate it most!
Story was good, after watching all stupid kind of movie, finally got a good, fully dramatic Love-story to watch and get entertained! Hmmm... But it was also not totally flawless one but then over all loved points are more than hate once, that's it! Can watch twice!

In the name of Professionalism

Just caught this scene on T. V. where girl loved a boy, they are colleagues and work in same department. Boy love someone else and happily tells this girl about it, not knowing that she loves him. Now the girl is completely shattered with this news and is not able to face the boy and wants to quit job, but she needs this job as her financial condition is not well and also don't want to show those signs to boy that her heart is broken but at the same time is in very tough situation that don't have strength to see him more in front of her eyes.
Her heart says quit the job, her mind says, stupid be professional and do your job, quitting is not a solution, face the truth!
I don't know what she finally did but this always happens that in the name of Professionalism we are ought to chose ways that could hurt us more than anything but they call it Professionalism! :/

To know or not to know?

I was just musing about this topic as to will it be fair and good to know everything that is ever going to happen in our life or will it be a mess if we would know our future!
For instance, I was thinking this with regards to death. Will it be good to know when we would die or it should be a suspense as always it does and all of sudden we would be missing from this world forever.
Just remembered the movie Dasvidaniya, in which the lead character Mr. Vinay Pathak come to know that he have cancer which is at the last stage and he could not be cured. So he make list of things that he would do before he would die.
Wow! I indeed loved this concept. But it would be very strange to say that I would like to know when I would die so that I can make list of things that I would do before I can die. Not all can handle themselves in such a situation and secondly it's a movie after all. And no matter how late but I've definitely learned that reality of life is reality and fictions of movie are fictions. They could never resemble true picture of real life, indeed we should not accept this from them as well. But then yes, living life in reality is more than enough to know what is real and what can never happen and so atleast we should have movies that could make us dream about something that could not happen in real but still we could be happy seeing them happening in front of us. But then believing into it and expecting such things to happen actually in real life is also freaky. So we should have senses to distinguish into what is real and what is fictional.
Phew! I'm smelling that I've completely deviated from my topic. So coming back to it, would you like to know when you would die rather than all of sudden going from this life without even ever realising that this life which belong to you has actually ended and things that you had thought of doing once but had postponed it due to some reasons and responsibilities and have given other stuffs more priority but had still not erased them from your to-do list but have just given a back seat, and now when it was the time when you thought that the list had brought those things at upper stage and you could have done them but now this cruel life isn't with you to let you do them!
Would you like to die with those unfulfilled dreams in your eyes?
No! I would definitely not. But I do know that it's definitely not possible to know when would you die either. And of course not all can live with this thought of knowing exactly when they would die. Sometimes its good to know what you don't know. Some would die daily with this thought that they would soon die but some could plan their life and try to fulfill all their dreams that they ever wanted to fulfill.
Would you like to know when you will die?
What things you would do before you would die?
These are the two questions I have for myself to answer, would you too like to think about it?

Interesting Reading 27

If you remember my name, you pay me a subtle compliment; you indicate that I have made an impression on you.
Remember my name and you add to my feelings of importance!

10 ways to be a Great Parent

One of the nicest things about being a parent is that regardless of the circumstances of your own childhood, the moment you go from being ‘a girl or guy’ to being a parent, you suddenly ‘get it.’ That amazing feeling of exactly what it’s like to love something more than anything.
Here are Gurgles top ten tips on how to be a good parent…

1. Be involved in your child's life.
Being involved fully in your child’s life can be hard work, and more often than not means rethinking and rearranging your priorities. Lots of parents feel they don’t spend enough time with their children or that they have to sacrifice what they do for what the child wants. It’s important to get the balance right; if you work all week and can’t imagine a weekend looking after the children and need some ‘downtime’ yourself, make sure you make time for both. Take the children to the park, ice creams, read to them , spending quality time together but say ‘mummy/daddy needs an hour to catch up on emails/football etc’ to get the balance right.

2.Establish and set rules.
Make sure you and your partner stick to the same rules. It’s no good if Daddy comes home and lets the children have chocolate buttons after Mum has said they are only allowed a certain amount of chocolate if they are good! Establishing some ‘family rules’ with your children is a great way to communicate your expectations and be consistent in your parenting. Make sure there are no more than 3-5 house rules as too many can seem like lists and lists of rules which children would soon find tedious.

3.Avoid harsh discipline.
Many people use the same tactics their own parents used, and a lot of times that meant using really harsh discipline which can make children angrier and either more enclosed or more likely to take it out on others. Sometimes being a parent can make you very frustrated, especially when you have a whinging whining child (for no reason) and the child will not reason with you. The best thing to do in this circumstance is try not to make an issue out of the whinging by not getting cross. Laughing during a tense moment can ease the pressure off you and may even make the child stop the tantrum when they realise it really doesn’t work. Take a moment to stop, breathe, count to ten and carry on as normal with what you are doing. Your child will hopefully get the point that you are not interested in the tantrum and you can make light of it.

4.Explain your rules and decisions.
Always explain your rules and decisions so that your children know exactly why you are punishing/praising them and they can learn from this. For example, ‘Lucy, I am not going to give you your pudding until you finish your broccoli because you have to eat up your dinner before you can go on and have a desert’, rather than a simple no.

5.Treat your child with respect
Sometimes it’s difficult to understand the sheer dependency and enormity of raising children and parents do often view them as small beings who really should be grateful, have less tantrums, stop whinging, and stop arguing with their siblings etc. These are all ideal types of behaviour which we would love children to understand, but in truth, the ungratefulness, tantrums, whinging and so on, can be down to parents barking orders all day long, ignoring common courtesies toward the child, and in defiance, children ignore the parents altogether. The best approach would be to treat your child as respectfully as you yourself would like to be treated.

6.Help them feel safe
It is very important for children to feel safe and this can start at home by hanging family portraits around the house, or pictures of them with their siblings in their bedrooms -a great way of giving them a sense of belonging.
Try not to argue with your spouse in front of the children. If they are sleeping, argue quietly. Children may feel insecure and fearful when they hear parents bickering. Also, children will learn to argue with each other the same way as they hear their parents argue with each other. The best way to deal with this is to show them that when people disagree, they can discuss their differences peacefully.

7.Do Something Familiar.
Children love routine and ritual, and if there is a special thing you and your children love doing, make time to make it part of your day/week. A particular story you always read before bedtime or something you always say to them before they go to bed. Children love the repetition of something lovely and will remember these little loving moments as they get older.

8.Read together
No matter whether you have a tiny baby or a wriggly toddler, they all love to be read to. You may need to adapt what you read slightly, more colourful bold books for babies, and simple, funny or sweet stories for toddlers. A 4-5 year old will be able to handle slightly more complex story and interesting illustrations. Reading with your child creates a perfect bonding time together.

9.Find out one important thing about your child’s day.
Although this really applies to slightly older children, finding something important about what they did at nursery or the childminders or even if they had a day out with daddy, is very important. It shows that you are interested in what they do and involved in their world. As they get older this can work as they may tell you the good things but also comfortable enough to tell you their worries and fears.

10. Don’t worry about the previous nine items.
Just when you think you’re doing ok as a parent, then along comes an article like this one to make you feel like you are not doing the job right!? Of course, that’s not the point. All the goals we’ve listed are worth aiming for, but no one will ever accomplish all of them, every day. So don’t beat yourself up trying to do the impossible. If expectations seem to high, be realistic about it and try not to judge yourself against other parents… remember they are probably feeling like you do as well.

A good way to look at how to become a good parent, is to try and enjoy the time you have with your little ones. Take a step back, take a breath, look at these little people you have created and spend time with them. It’s these moments with your children that make them feel loved. Leave the washing for another few minutes, have that chat with a friend on the phone a bit later and take those extra moments to spend with your children.

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Guess my status?

Few days back we went to my cousin brothers maternal uncles house, his uncles wife was also there to welcome us with that broad smile and helloji... According to her she had last seen me when I was of 5 months and but obvious I can't remember anything of those days.
Wow! That realise me that I was too small, tiny, cute baby someday!;)
The uncle is a practicing CA and that day I came to know that he was in fact a ranker, 1989 cleared! Wow...
But then after knowing this the aunt threw an atom bomb on me by asking how was my HSC Exams? I was for few minutes dumb, then I clarified that I've already completed my HSC few years back in fact! My brother and cousin bro was giving me wicked smile on this and were blinking their eyes as well. I ignored them. Then she enquired about my TY B Com thinking I will be in TY, and I clarified again notified that I've already completed my TY as well. She knew that I was doing CA, and her daughter was also thinking about this carrier option and in this June she will be attempting CPT for the first time so after I said that I've completed my TY she could guess that I would have given my CPT as well, thank God that she could guess at least this much! Thinking me to be a HSC student was too much, I thought! Oh, com'on I don't look that young... Do I? How would I know?!
We then had common chat and in that I gave enough tips that they needed relating to CA course, again they thought that I've just cleared PCC, not again!!! So by the end of the day, as we left I clarified that I've given my CA final attempt as well...
This incident reminded me one similar incident when one of my society's aunty as well tried to ask me something of such sorts. But then the fact is girls always love being guessed as under aged, am I right girls?!
Huh... But not always.
Poor ME!:(

But no offence, as I'm myself bad in two things, first being guessing somebody's age and second their rationality. And hence I never attempt to predict it! Nor does it matter...

I've lost all of it! ;(

He was in my life since past 10 months. We were together with each other as much possible. We both know each other very well now. We shared as much time possible with each other and also gave ample space required. We were very well getting along with each other and enjoyed the companionship! He obeyed my commands (he he ;) you can read requests, sounds decent!)
He accompanied me wherever and whenever I needed him in fact everywhere. When I didn't needed him I would tell him to shut up! He very calmly even did that for me. He was my HUMRAAZ. I shared everything with him. I cried on him, I laughed with him, we played together, I sometimes even threw him away from sight. He never dragged me away from my friends in fact they were jealous of him at times ;) I could smell that! :P
The best part about him was that he never complained, he listened to all I ever wanted to say, never judged me, accepted me as I am, I did tried to change him and he obediently accepted that as well. Even though when I met him first I didn't liked him the way I thought he should have been for me to get along well with anyone but he was cruel on me and decided to still enter in my life and change my feelings, views for him with no force but slowly and steadily by showing that he isn't something less, indeed not, now I see that! I wanted something else but due to some reason I had to be with him, but now that I started liking him, loving him, enjoying everything about him suddenly that happened which shouldn't have.
I confessed him that he was the best one I've got and that in past my views were different before he came into my life. He suddenly looked very serious, I thought he would be kidding me and trying to afraid me. Hence I ignored his expressions. I was talking to him but he wasn't responding to what I said, there was nothing that had happened between us which could make him behave so with me. I just said what was true and never thought that he would get so serious on it that he will stop looking at me and listening to me. I asked him to reply to me before I could die out of pain. He still didn't care for it. I begged him to look at me to look into my eyes and see how much I needed him. He was hurt though I didn't intended any such thing! His eyes shut closed and he dropped down completely. I got freeze. I patted him and asked him to open his eyes, he was blank completely. My heart throbbed and started beating at such a rate that it would have come out of my mouth. I started feeling breathless as if there was no oxygen in the air and it was very suffocating. My throat got dry, my mouth stopped producing saliva that I can wet my throat. He fainted and was in my lap, I held his face in my hands. I could only try to wake him up but nothing seemed to work on him. As if he was deaf. But thankfully once or twice, a very few times he blinked that showed me that he was still alive. But the way all this happened I could not stop thinking what if he would leave me forever? I know it was not the time to think negative but to get some positive energy and get him some cure. I could not grab control over me and the past memories of our relationship started flashing in front of my eyes, I was looking at him and remembering all those phrases that we have lived together made me feel nostalgic about it. Tears filled in my eyes. I quickly wiped them off as I wanted him back in my life no matter what, for this I needed strength and positive energy. I pushed those sad feelings aside and placed him safely down and started praying that he get well. It was night and I could not take him for cure now. The whole night was in front of me to be passed. Nights are so long I never realized it before. I was restless on my bed, sleeplessly waiting for the Moon to go and Sun to shine and bring me new hopes of bringing back shine in my life as well!
I got out of my bed and looked at him, he was still in the same situation, nothing seemed to have improved in him. I got ready and took him along with me. I searched for the best place for his cure on net and took him there directly. There were so many people there, I was the 14th person to be allowed to be attended. I was continuously praying till my turn came. Hoped for only one thing that they somehow cure him no matter what. And I guessed if I would have prayed for something more as well...
Soon they called for us to get in. We went inside and they took declaration from me that they don't guarantee if something wrong happens to him. How could you? I wanted to shout out at them, but I've seen this in movies and soaps and now this was the time  worst time when I had to go through all this alone, my hands were shivering as well as sweating. I gave away all the responsibilities of his to them.
After half an hour they came out and I was staring to read the expressions as there were no words they spoke. Finding it difficult to judge, finally I begged to tell how was he? The person with his low voice informed me that he is fine and saved but... And the long pause... I could not imagine what the shocking and scaring but could mean? I again begged to please break silence and tell me what has happened to him, if he is fine!? And then those words that I listened were so difficult to understand as if I didn't know the language they spoke, as if the voice merely hit my ear drums but it failed to give signals to my brain by whatever they meant! They said that he is fine but unfortunately had lost his memory completely. I felled down on the chair out of shock! How can it happen so? How can he forget me? How can he forget how we first met? How can he forget the moments we spent together? How can he....? How can he forget everything???
But that was the truth I had to accept and swallow down my throat.
And hence though I got my Android back with me but he had lost all his memories, all my contacts, my messages, and all other things that were saved in the phone memory. Unfortunately I didn't had any back up of it! So sad... :(