December 31, 2012
A Lesson In Psychology!!
¤ When A Person Laughs 2 Much Even On Stupid Things, Be Sure That Person Is
Sad Deep Inside.
¤ When A Person Sleeps a lot, Be Sure that Person Is Lonely.
¤ When A Person Talks Less, And If He Talks, He Talks Fast Then It Means That Person Keeps Secrets.
¤ When Someone Can't Cry Then That Person Is Weak.
¤ When Someone Eats In Abnormal Way Then That Person Is In Tension.
¤ When Someone Cry On Little Things Then It Means He Is Innocent & Soft Hearted.
¤ When Someone Gets Angry On Silly Or Small Things It Means He Is In Love.
So True, Try To See All These In Real Life, U Will Find All.
December 27, 2012
"Difference in Love and Marriage"...
A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and
come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders... may be there is a
bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the
previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have
already miss the person..."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and
come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach
the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith
and believe this is the best one you get... This is marriage.
bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the
previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have
already miss the person..."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and
come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach
the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith
and believe this is the best one you get... This is marriage.
December 23, 2012
Freedom fight
After listening to what had actually happened with that 23yr old young girl, I actually lost control over my emotions. I felt the pain in my heart, for a girl could always understand the pain. Of course, the one who suffers knows the real pain but being women you can still sense it straight in the heart.
What kind of humanity it could be? No these people cannot be called humans! They aren't. Over and above they say the culprits have no regrets! Why would he have any? He very well knows that he have enough money to throw at law and get himself a bail or otherwise he may spend his rest of life resting in jail till the verdict come. In all they don't have any fear left because there is no power left with judicial system of our country to stop crime and punish criminals.
Something is to be done with all this, everyone feels. So do feel parents of all the girls. And the only option they are left with them is to stop their girl child from going out alone! Or go out at night. Is it right thing to do? Of course not. But do they have any other option? No, they don't. This could also be considered one of the reason why people don't want a girl child because of the risk of her safety involved. Had there been enough security for women things would not have been the way they are. Ask any girl if she had never been teased by any male on road or in public. It is very common. And after a time we women get used to this and start living with it.
We never feel completely safe. I never felt that. We never felt that. Is this the life that we are looking at, at giving ourselves as well as to our future generation? Previous generation didn't wanted to give women freedom for that matter, for no one wanted their daughter, wife, sister, mother to be unsafe. Now things have improved from women working out, persuading higher education but are they safe than before? No, it's just that they have made their place out of great struggle but this is not easy, it was not easy then nor now.
Only they know how much care they take to safeguard themselves. Only they know how much prevention they take. Only they know how much they bear. Only we know!
Are we making women feel that being women is a curse? Yes, if you can't safeguard them you are promoting that being women is curse, that it's still "the male dominated Indian society." Why would any couple want to have a daughter then? Why? Today no one have time to accompany their child each and every place. You and I would be working at our offices and our children would be on their own at school, college or out or even at home, would they be safe? Are they safe now, today? We know the answer, don't we?
The only change that had taken place in our law since it has been formed is in the reservation. Yes, our dear political leaders only know how to pass reservation bill. They don't know how to pass Jan Lokpal Bill, they don't know how to pass a strict law to safeguard evils who assault. They only know how to play game. Political game.
People who protest, for the political leaders, they are those who got no work home hence they come out for their rights. Why we voted them, why are they elected, to beat those who are innocent! Why would they understand things our way? They and their family got enough security of government servants to protect them. Only unsafe are those to whom they are supposed to serve. But instead of being public servants they have become rulers.
Ever persons time come. Soon will be their turn, they should not forget it and in the name of democracy the shield that they are using to protect themselves the same democracy, the same janta has power to bring them down to earth if they can make them the ruling party.
For MEN
You are indeed responsible in all sense to protect the women around them irrespective of they being related to them or not, for the other section of assaulting once are ruining the whole male sections image. In spite they being good no one would be believing them, no one would be respecting them, no one would trust them. Worst is this. To prove others that you are loyal, good, trustworthy. You need to build your good image that other culprits are trying to worsen.
For Parents
Instead teaching your daughter to stay safe, teach your son to respect women.
For Society
We need change over all. We need to fight for our rights and we will. Women is to be respected not to be used. Women is too human being.
For Government
Use your power to change things for the betterment of this society. For inhuman why shall their be humanity treatment? Their shall be some stringent laws such that before committing any such acts one should think thousands of times. For me life imprisonment is not the one and nor the hanged till death one. One is hanged once and it's easy to die once but not to have a traumatic accident and to live with it forever. It's not easy! Can't we have a 'TIT FOR TAT' law. For sexual harassment they shall be harassed same way. Seriously!
For Women
Stop ignoring. Enough of we have ignored small incidents of teasing. That gives them courage to do big crimes for they start thinking that women are weak. Speak out so that once bitten they will be twice shy to do anything of such acts.
PS: Easy to write than do but we need to start from somewhere, it can be from thinking to doing. We need to do it. We need to snatch our rights of living a free life and in real sense achieve freedom for ourselves.
Disclaimer: This blog post is not intended to hurt any section of society, especially males. It's pure intention is to depict what a woman is feelings in such circumstances.
August 19, 2012
Are we Independent?
Of late I am with the post about India not very specifically about the Independence Day Celebration and all but just about a thought that had just crept up on my mind! That we haven't yet got Independence in all real senses and terms.
Proving this thought are the recent Videos that I've uploaded on previous posts of Videos of Satyamev Jayate. Though I know that mostly everyone like me must have seen them but still if haven't then do watch them to know the real Sach of the things happening under your nose but we haven't yet seen them nor smelled.
Here is it's official link: http://www.satyamevjayate.in/
Now the height is that even such good things are being pirated. There are so many fake sites so beware of them.
For me this was the best thing ever done by any Star. Used his Stardom for something very valuable that counts a lot.
Though there are lots and lots of things to be done by each one of us as well and hope some day I will do my bit towards something contending like this.
Thanks to Amir Khan and all other people associated with Satyamev Jayate. I'm heart touched by all the episodes of it, by their hard work, efforts.
Jai Hind!
Satyamev Jayate!
August 7, 2012
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About being famous and not so famous
Many a times we come across people who are famous, who have done great things, who are known to million of people, sometimes even world famous. Looking at them and listening about the great work they did in their life all of sudden you feel that life is this where you are known to so many lives, where you inspire so many people. Life is what they have lived, life is what the great work they have done.
It's good to appreciate others great efforts and kind deeds but then comparing it with your life and thinking that worth life is only theirs is not fair. Agreed that they are known to everyone but you not, they have some world records but you don't, they have inspired many but you haven't, they are remembered by so many for so many years even after their death but you think that you might be not.
But but but...
You are forgetting something...
That,
You are a hope of your Dad, you are a dream come true personality of your Mom, you are more than your life to your spouse, you are the most lovable person to your siblings, you are a special person very rare to your dearest best friend, you are a super hero of your child, you are an inspiration to your grand children, you are an asset to your company, you are treasury to your employees, etc etc.
So very few could affect lives. Agreed, few can to more but it's not that you to none. You do! You too have an importance of your own existence. Not only those lives are worth living but even yours. You are surviving as an individual, standing on your foot with pride of being something very important to your family, friends and associates. Many a times what a normal common man can do even the famous people can't and that is give love to those who love them. Give their precious time and support to their family. Everyones life have it's own balance. Some do great at work, some are great with their relationships, very few can have everything for them. Fame and money are important to few and few prefer love more important. But whatever you don't get is what you are not made for.
Handling family and children, nurturing their lives. Helping kids do their homework and making food for family could not be termed as a less worth thing than being a world famous person on television being praised by million unknowns.
It's only the role that God had assigned to us, comparing the two and taking one as superior and another inferior is not a fair job that you could do.
We as an individual also have enough importance in lives of many than what we can think.
A famous person when dies whole lot of million people feels sad about it. When a common man dies only few hundred or thousands might be sad. But if the person is being remembered for all his good deeds for human race. If they and their good deeds are being remembered and their stories are being narrated to their grand and great grand children by their children rather than being remembered as some famous personality who had done something great once. Then may be dying a life of a not so famous person is not all that bad.
Happiness is different to different people.
Life is different to different people.
Arrange marriages
Well...
If loving someone is about accepting the person with all his good and bad then arrange marriages are the ones getting it all of that!
You accept the person with the way he & she is and you learn to love and live together with all the things they have in them.
Disclaimer: That's just a mere thought per se, nothing more, nothing less about it... :P
August 2, 2012
July 24, 2012
Success has not yet knocked my door! :(
Well, in short and clear way I mean to say that I've failed in my CA final exams. This was my first attempt. Every CA student must have heard the importance of being a first attempt chartered from someone or other. I'm hoping that it might be having some relevance as well. But, I'm not, I could not be called as a first attempt Chartered. Indeed, one day I'll be a CA, no doubt.
Haan, you feel bad. Ney, you feel worst!:( It was dream and has remained unfulfilled. Yes, not all dreams could become reality, but at least some? You question your fate. You don't really understand where things went wrong? You don't find answer to the questions, why not me? You cry, you get frustrated, irritated, emotionally imbalanced. Your dreams have shattered, your parents expectations from you have shattered. Not only you failed but more than this, many have still cleared hit you. Some cleared at least a group, some with at least an exemption, some with dot 400, some good performance, few with a rank. Wow! They are proud of themselves, their parents are proud of them, their family, relatives and friends are proud of them. But you, you are still there, from where you started few months back. Nothing seems to have changed in spite of the hard work, dedication, sincerity, sleepless nights spent studying, you struggled hard to avoid any kind of distraction, but ultimately everything went in vain. Nothing could save you. All those things that you did wrong in PCC and tried to correct in final still results got no improvements to show that struggle.
You will have to start again from scratch! Same things again, same books, same concepts, same topics, same sums, same you, same days and nights full of studies and only studies. Sometimes you control your emotions so that your parents don't feel more bad about it but then some thing goes wrong and you burst out with that small reason, with inner feeling of failure. Your parents too avoid to bring any topic to you that could make you feel bad but still action speaks louder than voice and those eyes, in them you can see the emotions, the moist clearly visible, the evidence of they being sad about the fact that your hard work could not bloom. All this has to hit you no matter how hard you try to control.
Few messages, phone calls also make you feel irritable asking about those things again and again. You don't find courage to ask friends their score. You log in fb knowing surely to get what you are searching for. Yes, everyone cleared has boldly written their victory words on their walls. Their are many comments congratulating them, many more likes. You feel good for them even wanna write something but fingers don't support you, you want to hit at least a like but then you feel more dislike for your failure. You are now more sad. No, not because they have cleared but because you could not. Not always 3 idiots theory applies, that when friend fails you feel Bad but when friend tops you feel more bad. Rubbish! Not agreeable. You feel good for them but your own failure impacts more and make you sad. Their dreams are fulfilled give you happiness but your shattered give more sadness. Not in comparison but in individuality. You wish if you would have also been amongst them, celebrating, happy!
Everyone is thanking God for their success. But you can't, but why God only gets credit for success and not for failure? Even those who fail have studied, prayed, isn't it? But you can't say, thank you god, the almighty for failing me. You can't! Does that mean that like humans even God is with you in your good days? I don't know! Nothing against God but just a thought. Question grow from inside. Never mind, some day will be mine where my success will also be followed with Gods grace on me. Some day even I'll be celebrating my success. Only clearing CA in first attempt doesn't define their success story and doesn't take away mine. May be I'm not yet polished to shine like a diamond and need more time and efforts to prove my worth and understand the worth of the degree for which I'm greedy.
There was singing reality show going on and they were giving shradhanjali to Rajesh Khanna for his contribution to Indian cinema. And I thought, this is real success. That you are being remembered for your kindness and great work after you are gone forever. Success is this and not only in clearing CA in first attempt but also in doing your job with pure and hard efforts throughout the rest of life. Success is when people remember you for your good deeds, for your good nature, etc... Definitions could be customized. Some may think you are fool to fail, you didn't worked hard to pass out, you are the dumb who some how cleared your PCC, again in 3 attempts then how can you clear final which is more tough in one, some may conclude that you didn't actually had that fire in you to get through it at once but their may be some who may have faith in you that one day you'll be none less than those smartest people out their. My naked eyes have seen people giving 7-8 or even more attempts and clearing and are in same position in same company with same pay! See, there is no difference! Just the difference of how strongly you could stand back on your feets and again try to walk. Not always you will find support but will have to hold yourself on your own will power. Though it would be the difficult part to start back again, to come back to reality that your efforts have not lead you to your destination and you still need more energy to work more harder and get what you aim to. More than the no of people clear there are people who fail. But they still keep trying and so is it that you too have to do. Getting sympathy is not the solution. Accepting the reality could only help. The need to start back soon possible and avoid making mistakes that you did last time.
Right time will give right occasions to celebrate, till then be strong. Don't let only others inspire you be your own inspiration and motivation, it'll last forever...
Haan, you feel bad. Ney, you feel worst!:( It was dream and has remained unfulfilled. Yes, not all dreams could become reality, but at least some? You question your fate. You don't really understand where things went wrong? You don't find answer to the questions, why not me? You cry, you get frustrated, irritated, emotionally imbalanced. Your dreams have shattered, your parents expectations from you have shattered. Not only you failed but more than this, many have still cleared hit you. Some cleared at least a group, some with at least an exemption, some with dot 400, some good performance, few with a rank. Wow! They are proud of themselves, their parents are proud of them, their family, relatives and friends are proud of them. But you, you are still there, from where you started few months back. Nothing seems to have changed in spite of the hard work, dedication, sincerity, sleepless nights spent studying, you struggled hard to avoid any kind of distraction, but ultimately everything went in vain. Nothing could save you. All those things that you did wrong in PCC and tried to correct in final still results got no improvements to show that struggle.
You will have to start again from scratch! Same things again, same books, same concepts, same topics, same sums, same you, same days and nights full of studies and only studies. Sometimes you control your emotions so that your parents don't feel more bad about it but then some thing goes wrong and you burst out with that small reason, with inner feeling of failure. Your parents too avoid to bring any topic to you that could make you feel bad but still action speaks louder than voice and those eyes, in them you can see the emotions, the moist clearly visible, the evidence of they being sad about the fact that your hard work could not bloom. All this has to hit you no matter how hard you try to control.
Few messages, phone calls also make you feel irritable asking about those things again and again. You don't find courage to ask friends their score. You log in fb knowing surely to get what you are searching for. Yes, everyone cleared has boldly written their victory words on their walls. Their are many comments congratulating them, many more likes. You feel good for them even wanna write something but fingers don't support you, you want to hit at least a like but then you feel more dislike for your failure. You are now more sad. No, not because they have cleared but because you could not. Not always 3 idiots theory applies, that when friend fails you feel Bad but when friend tops you feel more bad. Rubbish! Not agreeable. You feel good for them but your own failure impacts more and make you sad. Their dreams are fulfilled give you happiness but your shattered give more sadness. Not in comparison but in individuality. You wish if you would have also been amongst them, celebrating, happy!
Everyone is thanking God for their success. But you can't, but why God only gets credit for success and not for failure? Even those who fail have studied, prayed, isn't it? But you can't say, thank you god, the almighty for failing me. You can't! Does that mean that like humans even God is with you in your good days? I don't know! Nothing against God but just a thought. Question grow from inside. Never mind, some day will be mine where my success will also be followed with Gods grace on me. Some day even I'll be celebrating my success. Only clearing CA in first attempt doesn't define their success story and doesn't take away mine. May be I'm not yet polished to shine like a diamond and need more time and efforts to prove my worth and understand the worth of the degree for which I'm greedy.
There was singing reality show going on and they were giving shradhanjali to Rajesh Khanna for his contribution to Indian cinema. And I thought, this is real success. That you are being remembered for your kindness and great work after you are gone forever. Success is this and not only in clearing CA in first attempt but also in doing your job with pure and hard efforts throughout the rest of life. Success is when people remember you for your good deeds, for your good nature, etc... Definitions could be customized. Some may think you are fool to fail, you didn't worked hard to pass out, you are the dumb who some how cleared your PCC, again in 3 attempts then how can you clear final which is more tough in one, some may conclude that you didn't actually had that fire in you to get through it at once but their may be some who may have faith in you that one day you'll be none less than those smartest people out their. My naked eyes have seen people giving 7-8 or even more attempts and clearing and are in same position in same company with same pay! See, there is no difference! Just the difference of how strongly you could stand back on your feets and again try to walk. Not always you will find support but will have to hold yourself on your own will power. Though it would be the difficult part to start back again, to come back to reality that your efforts have not lead you to your destination and you still need more energy to work more harder and get what you aim to. More than the no of people clear there are people who fail. But they still keep trying and so is it that you too have to do. Getting sympathy is not the solution. Accepting the reality could only help. The need to start back soon possible and avoid making mistakes that you did last time.
Right time will give right occasions to celebrate, till then be strong. Don't let only others inspire you be your own inspiration and motivation, it'll last forever...
July 8, 2012
Quest for NOTHING!
The book is as interesting as the title. But I liked the title very very much.
Right from the cover page the book is interesting till the last one! It is indeed more amazing with the descriptions of scenes and characters that you actually start living them as one! It's again a neat and clean one!
Amazing book, one more must read I would recommend anyone to read, for it's amazing storyline, the authors more amazing vocabulary. If you happen to be a person with very basic vocabulary like that of mine then please keep dictionary by your side, you'll surely need it right from the first para! Yes, take it from me! Very very good language used, that too throughout the book. Every page will get you addition to new word that you might have read for the first time, I did! Hence guiding you, it'll help you learn new words.
I'm indeed impressed by the book in all regards.
It's life of corporate both men and women. Just felt it was correct time to know about the world where in future we would be heading into and will surely face the circumstances the couple have in this book. But may be reading it can give us preparedness to have things at the back of our mind as to what or how could we handle the situations. Though life cannot be planned but you never know preparedness is always a better option to live a happy life. As life with experience could be easy but it's surely not necessary to learn from own experience but could be from others and again that other need not necessarily mean to be someone known person but could be a movie we watch or a book we read. So is it...
For those who have decided to read it please don't read the later part of this post as am gonna talk about those parts that involves the thrilling part that the story contains and if you'll get to know about it now and then later if you'll read the book you'll miss that thrill. Don't complaint afterwards that I crushed your excitement. Okay. But later on you can read this part to share your own experience as well.
Okay!
Good!
Right from the cover page the book is interesting till the last one! It is indeed more amazing with the descriptions of scenes and characters that you actually start living them as one! It's again a neat and clean one!
Amazing book, one more must read I would recommend anyone to read, for it's amazing storyline, the authors more amazing vocabulary. If you happen to be a person with very basic vocabulary like that of mine then please keep dictionary by your side, you'll surely need it right from the first para! Yes, take it from me! Very very good language used, that too throughout the book. Every page will get you addition to new word that you might have read for the first time, I did! Hence guiding you, it'll help you learn new words.
I'm indeed impressed by the book in all regards.
It's life of corporate both men and women. Just felt it was correct time to know about the world where in future we would be heading into and will surely face the circumstances the couple have in this book. But may be reading it can give us preparedness to have things at the back of our mind as to what or how could we handle the situations. Though life cannot be planned but you never know preparedness is always a better option to live a happy life. As life with experience could be easy but it's surely not necessary to learn from own experience but could be from others and again that other need not necessarily mean to be someone known person but could be a movie we watch or a book we read. So is it...
For those who have decided to read it please don't read the later part of this post as am gonna talk about those parts that involves the thrilling part that the story contains and if you'll get to know about it now and then later if you'll read the book you'll miss that thrill. Don't complaint afterwards that I crushed your excitement. Okay. But later on you can read this part to share your own experience as well.
Okay!
Good!
Here it goes...
The story is about the corporate life of couples that first fall in love with eachother and happily get married to eachother, yes the love marriage! But later on as they move ahead in their carrier they find themselves moving ahead in carrier but heading no where in their personal relationship. Their marriage seems next to ruined. They decide to give time to it. Meanwhile they keep concentrating in their work and they start working at different cities and only talk on phone.
But still the wife plays an amazing role ever since she came into his life but finally she succeed in helping her husband outta volcano circumstance by all her intelligence and a try to save her relationship, she finally manages to save her husbands carrier as well.
Wow! Great Indian Women always behind the success of their husband! And hence proves that behind every successful man there is a woman!
True said...
I've still tried to not spill the beans but could not control much but wanted to discuss these points that I have.
Happy Reading
Keep Reading.
The story is about the corporate life of couples that first fall in love with eachother and happily get married to eachother, yes the love marriage! But later on as they move ahead in their carrier they find themselves moving ahead in carrier but heading no where in their personal relationship. Their marriage seems next to ruined. They decide to give time to it. Meanwhile they keep concentrating in their work and they start working at different cities and only talk on phone.
But still the wife plays an amazing role ever since she came into his life but finally she succeed in helping her husband outta volcano circumstance by all her intelligence and a try to save her relationship, she finally manages to save her husbands carrier as well.
Wow! Great Indian Women always behind the success of their husband! And hence proves that behind every successful man there is a woman!
True said...
I've still tried to not spill the beans but could not control much but wanted to discuss these points that I have.
Happy Reading
Keep Reading.
Life is like a flow chart!
Over the years of musing about this question of what life is?
I finally could conclude to an ideology that it's like a flow chart!
Flow chart, where the next stage comes with inclusion of decisions that you are required to be made and based upon those decisions the life takes you to the next level. Again you are asked to take steps ahead in your life and you have alternates available in front of you and based on the option you chose your life ahead is designed!
Not everything is written, but yes you need to grab the opportunities and do good deeds so that you could make correct decisions and you can design you life in your own ways...
Give life correct direction by choosing correct path, by asking right questions and also by answering them in right manner and then you will concur it all!
Not everything is written, but yes you need to grab the opportunities and do good deeds so that you could make correct decisions and you can design you life in your own ways...
Give life correct direction by choosing correct path, by asking right questions and also by answering them in right manner and then you will concur it all!
July 7, 2012
It is within you
The spirit to succeed is within,
The spark of hope lies within;
Your aim to shine like the brightest star is fired by resources from within.
You have the raw materials to mould your fate;
You have the necessary wherewithals to enter the winners gate.
Toil diligently and seek within;
You are bound to find the beginnings of a grand win.
The C. A. Course is not all that tough, if you conquer the rough;
Then you will find the sailing smooth;
It all comes from within.
Dream big, strategies and channelise your energy in pursuit;
New reserves of strength from within will guide you in your route.
Its all within your reach so brush yourself up if you stumble or fail;
Grid yourself, unstinted hard work will see you stand tall.
Leave no stone unturned, no avenue for doubt and shortcuts;
Stay steady on your course, you will find in the end,
Faith will triumph all.
Source: CA Students Journal
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These Days
Its been more than one and half month post exams that I'm busy doing nothing, yet occupied with stuffs that had prevented me from blogging! Actually one of the true reason could be peace of mind, that is what is been lacking. Not finding place where I can sit all alone and think.
But I've been doing many other activities these days.
Watching Movies are one of them. I'm watching them very randomly irrespective of them being new or old but yes interesting or something new that's what I'm trying to look as a filtering factor. Old and unseen category, I grab it. New and unseen, I grab it as well. Seen and interesting and of my taste, I don't allow to slide it away.
Next thing that I'm doing is Reading! But only when I can concentrate completely, I make a point. I'm a person who needs complete silence when I'm reading or at least no disturbance maximum possible. I sleep in day and read at night. That's my way these days. Or if happen to during day then I end up being deaf and dumb as when others are talking to me I'm just not able to give my ears to them as am that involved into the story! But without forgetting to give credit to the writer who can arrest his reader by their fine writings. Finally, by involving into avid reading I'm trying to clear up my piled stock of books and eager to buy new ones.
Fortunately or unfortunately my TV was suddenly sick and took 3 complete days to get back on tune. I must tell you, when unemployed life without TV is worst than at hell! No entertainment, No life. I felt. To this friends messages involving discussions about soaps made me more sad and gave me insecurity and urge to catch up with it.
Thanks to the internet that I could watch few of my serial online but that could be possible only after they get telecast on their prime time. People around me feel, I'm gone mad or something. And inner voice tagged me addicted! I accepted it. All this will be soon gone as I'll be back to work some day and watching serial would be again a dream like I dreamt when I was in my articleship. Again there are people who are highly talented, who are working hard to make their viewers eager to catch up to the next episode of their storyline. All great story, acting, cast, etc contribute to a viewer dying to watch its episode and end up watching it online when her TV is not working. Great job guys!
Reading books have also made me realise over a period that writing too isn't any cake walk! It takes great efforts, greater support of people around and greatest of self-determination! Being writer is great thing in itself, then may be its comes to second that if your book is best seller or not. I must admit that I've started respecting writers more than ever I did after reading few of the recent books.
Another thing that's happening in this leisure life of mine is chatting! Not that addictive about it than only with my BSP. We've sms pack now and since past 4yrs it's been now that we are not in touch with eachother for so long. Though there have been many times that we have met post our exams with some or other reasons and if no reason left we plan out a movie out together, or a night stay at each of our place. Once in a week we have met as of now. But future prospects are diminishing. So we decided to chat, again during day we find ourselves busy with our own homely tasks so we chat at night, under the sheets! Hiding and seeking! Like couples! He he he... Sshhh... Don't spread it, but we are normal don't worry! He he he... Just enjoying our loving friendship and Singlehood together, that's it! He he he...
Next things that is to be talked about is, Yes, rainy days. Though it took so long for rain to come as almost whole of June passed without a remarkable rainy day. But thankfully, rain is here. I wanted it to come soon for I was at home to enjoy it without getting wet! Having a view of rain from your window is the best thing to do.
But I've been doing many other activities these days.
Watching Movies are one of them. I'm watching them very randomly irrespective of them being new or old but yes interesting or something new that's what I'm trying to look as a filtering factor. Old and unseen category, I grab it. New and unseen, I grab it as well. Seen and interesting and of my taste, I don't allow to slide it away.
Next thing that I'm doing is Reading! But only when I can concentrate completely, I make a point. I'm a person who needs complete silence when I'm reading or at least no disturbance maximum possible. I sleep in day and read at night. That's my way these days. Or if happen to during day then I end up being deaf and dumb as when others are talking to me I'm just not able to give my ears to them as am that involved into the story! But without forgetting to give credit to the writer who can arrest his reader by their fine writings. Finally, by involving into avid reading I'm trying to clear up my piled stock of books and eager to buy new ones.
Fortunately or unfortunately my TV was suddenly sick and took 3 complete days to get back on tune. I must tell you, when unemployed life without TV is worst than at hell! No entertainment, No life. I felt. To this friends messages involving discussions about soaps made me more sad and gave me insecurity and urge to catch up with it.
Thanks to the internet that I could watch few of my serial online but that could be possible only after they get telecast on their prime time. People around me feel, I'm gone mad or something. And inner voice tagged me addicted! I accepted it. All this will be soon gone as I'll be back to work some day and watching serial would be again a dream like I dreamt when I was in my articleship. Again there are people who are highly talented, who are working hard to make their viewers eager to catch up to the next episode of their storyline. All great story, acting, cast, etc contribute to a viewer dying to watch its episode and end up watching it online when her TV is not working. Great job guys!
Reading books have also made me realise over a period that writing too isn't any cake walk! It takes great efforts, greater support of people around and greatest of self-determination! Being writer is great thing in itself, then may be its comes to second that if your book is best seller or not. I must admit that I've started respecting writers more than ever I did after reading few of the recent books.
Another thing that's happening in this leisure life of mine is chatting! Not that addictive about it than only with my BSP. We've sms pack now and since past 4yrs it's been now that we are not in touch with eachother for so long. Though there have been many times that we have met post our exams with some or other reasons and if no reason left we plan out a movie out together, or a night stay at each of our place. Once in a week we have met as of now. But future prospects are diminishing. So we decided to chat, again during day we find ourselves busy with our own homely tasks so we chat at night, under the sheets! Hiding and seeking! Like couples! He he he... Sshhh... Don't spread it, but we are normal don't worry! He he he... Just enjoying our loving friendship and Singlehood together, that's it! He he he...
Next things that is to be talked about is, Yes, rainy days. Though it took so long for rain to come as almost whole of June passed without a remarkable rainy day. But thankfully, rain is here. I wanted it to come soon for I was at home to enjoy it without getting wet! Having a view of rain from your window is the best thing to do.
Those small lil things in life and love!
This is title of the book that I've recently read. Its a novel. I'm amazed by the writing of the author Rahul Saini. With such minute details hehad managed to write this book. And have inspired me most with his power of imagination. The way this book is written is amazing, the fusion of past and present.
Again, its a love story.
A must read for those who like reading. I can't stop myself from appreciating the efforts put into to make it so simple yet very new and thrilling.
Funnely, even I would not have had so many girls in my life than the writer have mentioned in this book. It's full of girls, girls and only girls! There are very lil count of male characters. But that's the need of the book, validly.
Good job Rahul Saini. I'm very inspired with your writing. It has taught me a lot in terms of being a writer what all things should be considered to keep your reader interested into your write up.
Very lively book.
Again, its a love story.
A must read for those who like reading. I can't stop myself from appreciating the efforts put into to make it so simple yet very new and thrilling.
Funnely, even I would not have had so many girls in my life than the writer have mentioned in this book. It's full of girls, girls and only girls! There are very lil count of male characters. But that's the need of the book, validly.
Good job Rahul Saini. I'm very inspired with your writing. It has taught me a lot in terms of being a writer what all things should be considered to keep your reader interested into your write up.
Very lively book.
June 26, 2012
Teri Meri Kahani Shayaries...
Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 1.
Pehli baar hum kisise kaise, kab, kahaan, kis life mein miltein hain yeh humein bhi nahi pata
Aur unhein hum phir kaise, kab, kahaan, kis life main miltein hain.
Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 2.
Khuda ne jab tujhe banaya hoga
Ek sooroor uske dil mein aaya hoga
Socha hoga kya doonga tohfe main tujhe
Tab jaake usne mujhe banaya hoga.
Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 3.
Aap humein bhool jao humein koi gum nahi,
Jis din humney aapko bhoola diya samajh lijiyega is duniya mein hum nahi.
Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 4.
Na jagte huye khwaab dekha kar
Na chaho use jise pa na sako
Pyar kahhan kisi ka poora hota hain?
Pyar ka pehla akshar adhoora hota hain
Loved the Shayaries in the movie, but could find only these on net.
Movie was OK-OK!
Pehli baar hum kisise kaise, kab, kahaan, kis life mein miltein hain yeh humein bhi nahi pata
Aur unhein hum phir kaise, kab, kahaan, kis life main miltein hain.
Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 2.
Khuda ne jab tujhe banaya hoga
Ek sooroor uske dil mein aaya hoga
Socha hoga kya doonga tohfe main tujhe
Tab jaake usne mujhe banaya hoga.
Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 3.
Aap humein bhool jao humein koi gum nahi,
Jis din humney aapko bhoola diya samajh lijiyega is duniya mein hum nahi.
Teri Meri Kahaani Shayari 4.
Na jagte huye khwaab dekha kar
Na chaho use jise pa na sako
Pyar kahhan kisi ka poora hota hain?
Pyar ka pehla akshar adhoora hota hain
Loved the Shayaries in the movie, but could find only these on net.
Movie was OK-OK!
June 25, 2012
Just before Marriage
"I'm getting married in few days, let me enjoy these left over days of being single. Then lemme have a bachelors party, etc, etc... "
Funnily I don't understand that why people get married at first place if they think that getting married will not let them live freely and they are in future not gonna live life the way they want to live! Whats the use in doing something which will not make you happy but you are thinking that lets enjoy the remaining days, kya pata kal ho na ho ;) :P
Strange People, Stranger Life, Strangest rules of living this Life!
Phew!!!!
Life Sometimes really SUCKS!!!!!!!!! :/
Funnily I don't understand that why people get married at first place if they think that getting married will not let them live freely and they are in future not gonna live life the way they want to live! Whats the use in doing something which will not make you happy but you are thinking that lets enjoy the remaining days, kya pata kal ho na ho ;) :P
Strange People, Stranger Life, Strangest rules of living this Life!
Phew!!!!
Life Sometimes really SUCKS!!!!!!!!! :/
June 21, 2012
Irresponsible People...
What to say, I seriously don't have anymore patience with me to describe it.
I took the doctors appointment of 9.30am we reached on time after 2hours of travelling! But the Doctor didn't! Almost, after an hour we could see him coming. What is all this nonsense? I thought! But I was left to be more annoyed when he came and declared to his assistant that he'll come after taking round in the hospital. He came after almost more 45 minutes! I was very very angry. But it's of no use, my brain said to me!
Next day I went for the tests of all thousand types there they called me at 9.30am, as usual I reached on time in fact 15 mins early. But what they said to me was shocking, ie the Doctor will come at 10.30am, then why the hell! did you call me at 9.30am when the Doctor itself will not be coming then! I was not in a situation of waiting there nor could I go back home and come again after an hour. Somehow I passed away time and waited. After the tests I asked for the reports and the receptionist said that after an hour I'll get back the reports. I thought who'll stay back again for an hour and neither could I come back after an hour so I decided to collect them in the evening when I was to get other reports as well!
I came back to collect the reports at 8pm, now this was above my control to ever bear. They asked me to wait, I was waiting and it was almost half an hour that passed there waiting for reports but still they didn't had any word for me as to when they'll give me the reports after that when I asked back then they said that come tomorrow! What rubbish! I busted out, I've already informed that in any condition I want the reports now and today itself, next day morning I already have an appointment with the Doctor! I even mentioned that you were to give me reports in the morning itself and now it was post 9pm still they are making report what's all this?
Of course I still had to wait as they woke up from their sleep when I reached there and then started making the report and test itself took 45mins then report preparation had to take time as well!
But I seriously wanted to kill them all! What is this attitude I didn't understand! I very well showed them on their face how irritated I was with their attitude, even scolded them for wasting others time as if they were doing some charity work!
I took the doctors appointment of 9.30am we reached on time after 2hours of travelling! But the Doctor didn't! Almost, after an hour we could see him coming. What is all this nonsense? I thought! But I was left to be more annoyed when he came and declared to his assistant that he'll come after taking round in the hospital. He came after almost more 45 minutes! I was very very angry. But it's of no use, my brain said to me!
Next day I went for the tests of all thousand types there they called me at 9.30am, as usual I reached on time in fact 15 mins early. But what they said to me was shocking, ie the Doctor will come at 10.30am, then why the hell! did you call me at 9.30am when the Doctor itself will not be coming then! I was not in a situation of waiting there nor could I go back home and come again after an hour. Somehow I passed away time and waited. After the tests I asked for the reports and the receptionist said that after an hour I'll get back the reports. I thought who'll stay back again for an hour and neither could I come back after an hour so I decided to collect them in the evening when I was to get other reports as well!
I came back to collect the reports at 8pm, now this was above my control to ever bear. They asked me to wait, I was waiting and it was almost half an hour that passed there waiting for reports but still they didn't had any word for me as to when they'll give me the reports after that when I asked back then they said that come tomorrow! What rubbish! I busted out, I've already informed that in any condition I want the reports now and today itself, next day morning I already have an appointment with the Doctor! I even mentioned that you were to give me reports in the morning itself and now it was post 9pm still they are making report what's all this?
Of course I still had to wait as they woke up from their sleep when I reached there and then started making the report and test itself took 45mins then report preparation had to take time as well!
But I seriously wanted to kill them all! What is this attitude I didn't understand! I very well showed them on their face how irritated I was with their attitude, even scolded them for wasting others time as if they were doing some charity work!
June 18, 2012
My IRRITATION
My stomach was full than it should be and I realised that I had more than enough for myself! Wanted to stay on the bed before I could die. Soon, remembered that there are books in my shelf, all dying for me to pick them up and read ever since my exams are over, and it means from the past one whole month. I dragged myself up and crawled to find one, took the one which I once read but the only first chapter, for exams were dancing on my head to read modules than any other outta portion book and I killed my excitement then and read only first chapter and courageously kept it back. Now! I remembered about it back and grabbed it out of the heap, shuffled pages and started reading the second chapter as I realised I could very well remember what the first one was all about. In the swing of reading I somehow forgot that my stomach was aching and continued reading and was happy about it but then soon happiness went to rest as my eyes were dropping down, even though I said No, I don't want to sleep but want to read this such-an-interesting-book but my mind and eye could not obey each other and I folded the page on which I was then and decided to sleep for a while and then continue later when I'm fresh than to drag myself and kill the enjoyment. I folded the page of the book, drifted it down the sofa and closed my eyes. But before I could sleep, I realised that I'm not comfortable with the pillow I was having beneath my head and if I were to sleep in this condition I would surely get a headace or a neckace when I'm up. That means I'm supposed to get outta my bed now and get my pillow from the next room. OH NO! Nothing could be more irritating than getting up from the bed when you are dyingly asleep. But I had to! I settled down with my pillow, comfortably! Soon I was in my dreamland, there was pin drop silence in the room. I loved it. Soon my dreams shattered and somebody switched on the TV. I have this bad disease in me that I can never sleep if ever someone is watching TV, murmuring, whispering, talking, or even turning pages of a book or newspaper, my younger brother do all these stuffs and had irritated me and disturbed my sleep always with all these acts, but this time it was guest at home who did it, knowingly or unknowingly I don't care as well! All I know is I was sleeping and somebody disturbed me and even though I try to control my self by counting 100 or even 500 does not work for me in these situations and I said in not so loudly way but in a manner that I was irritated, to control the volume of TV if don't have common sense to not start it when someone is sleeping. Somehow I got back in my sleep which is very difficult but still I managed this time. Sooner than 10 min after that the telephone rang! Could you imagine this! My sleep broke again. I wanted to throw out the telephone along with my mobile phone which was beeping once and then with some stupid text messages! But I can't I know! I got up and picked up the phone which was barking continuously even though I was up and approaching to pick it up. It was my Dad and I was half asleep but fully irritated. I somehow heard things he said but unbearable was that he wanted me to search his PAN card and text him the no. I hanged up the phone and in no good mood went to his bed room to find one and then text the same. Oh! I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS! Still I had to, and more irritating was that I could not find it not because I was not in mood of finding but because my Dad and my brothers and their stuffs are always misplaced and difficult to find at once. I shouted and cursed this habit of all men on this earth, decide not to marry any such person who could be so irresponsible, soon realised all men are same, irresponsible and mismanaged. Finally, I found it almost after searching the whole cupboard of his and text it. Again went to my bed but I and the whole world around me know that now even if the God come down and make me sleep I could not ever! I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS, I HATE THIS!
More irritating is when someone tries to talk to me when I'm just out of my sleep. I'm a species
who don't ever want to utter a word at least till next half an hour. I just want to keep quite. I don't like to talk when I get up, I just keep quite, no movement, no word, no response, nothing. Just a silence. But people try my patience in this as well! Why should I speak? I don't understand! I HATE THIS!
More irritating is when someone tries to talk to me when I'm just out of my sleep. I'm a species
who don't ever want to utter a word at least till next half an hour. I just want to keep quite. I don't like to talk when I get up, I just keep quite, no movement, no word, no response, nothing. Just a silence. But people try my patience in this as well! Why should I speak? I don't understand! I HATE THIS!
June 17, 2012
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