My day out...

Today was more of fun day than routine study-study-and-study day!

Went to meet school friends. After months met them.

It was full of hugs, bike riding, walking, boating, munching, chit-chatting!
Exciting School days gossips, remembered people who had multiple affairs in those days and now married to someone else, who all else got married, remembered teachers, one even remembered getting 49.5 marks in 10th standard prelims how she reacted then, remembered who won which sports and being from different houses how we were rivals at time of annual sports, send off Saree day how it was wearing Saree for the first time.

Coming back to reality asked each other what we're doing currently, took lots of pics as memory of meet, shared contact no. of those not available and everyone now a days on Watsapp so we made further plans of staying connected.
There were plans about next meet...

While returning back home also met one friend who got married in December but I couldn't go to her marriage nor could meet afterwards. Met her too today, finally! :-)

Wow! The day was full of fun, masti, memories, joy, enjoyment, etc! :-)

Those who love most, hurt most...

Sometimes we're very sensitive about few people commenting or taunting us on any matter.
When they don't understand us. When they don't trust us.
It hurts the most.

Those who love us the most are the ones who hurt us the most! :(

Tujh mein hai SHAKTI!

Today while watching the episode of TV serial, Devon ke dev MAHADEV. I came across this scene where Devils were attacking few women and they were calling Devi Parvati for rescue. Maa came and with her power the devils ran away merely by looking at Maa forget about having fight with her!
Later what Maa said attracted my attention, "Tum mujhe pukar sakti ho madat ke liye lekin swayam prayatn nahi karti apni raksha ke liye. Har naari main meri shakti maujud hai usse bas iska abhas nahi hai. Yadi nari chahe toh kisi main itni himmat nahi hai ki wo usse apmanit kar sake. Tumhe bas sahas karna hai apne haq ko paane ka."

Disclaimer: Words are not exactly as said in the show. I've written what I can remember. But meaning was definitely the same! :-|

Who you are?

Your real CHARACTER is what you are when you're alone!

I believe into it! :-|

Tough times...

There comes many circumstances in our life when we've to chose between what we have to do and what not. And that's the moment when we mostly get confused and  can't decide what is to be done.
But I've discovered one trick to solve this problem.
Write options available each on a piece of paper of same size. Fold the paper and shuffle them without bias and then with closed eyes pick one piece of paper.
No, then I don't do what is written on the paper but what I feel should get selected when I chose to pick up the chit. Because whatever comes is not important and we can't leave decision on any probability but do what you have to. Since decision is in our hands we must be able to make it in best possible manner.
In this trick, we get to know what really we want, if everything have equal chances then what will be the thing that'll make us happy! We should chose that option!

I do that! It's the best way to chose... :)
Try it! ;)

Reaching destination...

Early morning, I boarded local train and luckily got fast one, also got seat to sit which we rarely find in early morning journey and that too in Mumbai Local! I was Happy that I got seat to sit properly and was very happy that now I'll reach my destination easily and quickly! :)
But the happiness couldn't stay for long when more than reasonable time passed and the train didn't move even an inch from the station where I boarded it. Everyone was restless and clueless! People started moving out. I still waited... Waited and waited... But it didn't move nor was there any announcement for commuters. Finally, almost whole train got emptied. Soon, I too decided to leave the best place and the best train I could fetch. I didn't wanted to but I had to if I have to reach my destination.
I stepped down and I noticed that on the parallel platform there was another fast train about to come. I managed to board it. I could fetch 4th seat which I don't like much. I peeped otta window of train to see earlier train, wondering if it would have started after I left it? To my relief, it was still there motionless as before! I was worried if this train too doesn't start but it did start on time and later I realised that it was fast train that I got again. After a short while I got 2nd place and was comfortable with the journey. Few stations before my destination I got window seat too! :)
I reached my destination safely and on time.

Moral of the story:
Sometimes you might fetch the best mode available to reach your destination but not necessary that it'll be best in real terms.
You might have to take risk in life to change your mode but after deciding to change it never worry about what if I wouldn't have decide to change. Think twice before taking any decision but never regret after deciding on anything.
Sometimes it's good to change your views than to think that there is only one best possible way of doing something. You never know there might be many of them. But if we stick to one forever we'll never find other ways that might give us same results.
Reaching to destination is important than through which mode we reach.
Sometimes the luxurious journey may prove useless if it can't make you start your journey at all and might also not make you reach your destination but a bit of struggle and hardship may do it right. So what's important is that you reach your destination and not much about how you reached.

As we've heard, NO PAIN, NO GAIN!

Shudh Desi Romance

Why you may like it?
1. New story: There are new elements in the movie that you and I've not seen before yet!

2. New Jodi: You may like the chemistry between new jodies.

3. Surprise element: There is surprise element in the story that leave you stick to the movie till the end.

4. Not boring: Its not completely boring.

5. A bit realistic: As far as anxiety with regard to marriage is concerned they've shown nicely how anxious this generation is about marriages. It's not easy to take this decision of your life.

Why you may not like it?
1. Overdone: Few things are overly exaggerated. For instance, Groom run away from marriage just before Varmala ceremony! Where as he had himself said yes for the marriage. It was height of irresponsibility.

2. Marriages stays: No matter how much you hate it or you argue about this issue called MARRIAGE, it'll stay forever, in India at least. There is no way out to it for anyone. Ever! Or very few could resist it.

3. No trust: If you're living-in with a person and happy too then how can you still run away from marriage with the same person? I felt it ridiculous! It means you never trust the person and your own feelings too. :/

4. Too anti-marriage: The only aim seemed to show marriages are barriers. I don't know if it's true or false but still it might not be that worst I'm sure! Daily so many people get married in India! :p

5. Too much of practicality: The girl whom you dump on the day of marriage, I guess, will never in her dreams will come back to you and ask, 'Mere boyfriend banoge?'

6. Extinct family: There was marriage issue but no body had family. In reality people get married mostly under family pressure only. ;) And in reality everyone have Family too!

7. Unsatisfied End: The end was abrupt I felt.

Hence, I've dislikes more than likes! :)
Shudh Desi Romance was not actually Desi at all! :P

Chocolate MAD!

I can seriously never avoid this one flavor EVER!
THE CHOCOLATE FLAVOR!

It attracts and satisfies my taste buds by all means and by any means! :D I always eat CHOCOLATE Ice-Cream, CHOCOLATE Cake, CHOCOLATE candy, CHOCOLATE milk shake, CHOCOLATE Sweets, CHOCOLATE drinks, CHOCOLATE CREAM BISCUITS, CHOCOLATE flavor anything else that can be made...

In fact freaky one was when my parlor wali used CHOCOLATE flavored wax cream and I asked her if I could taste it? And surprisingly she said yes because it have sugar syrup into wax cream and to it they add flavors too so it was CHOCOLATE there too and I didn't hesitate much into trying this one since it had CHOCOLATE into it! ;) :p

That was my secret confession, you better don't tell anyone about it! :/
:D
Anything that is in CHOCOLATE flavor brought at home doesn't stay for long! And my family members know who ate it all... ;)

But my friends, all of them, they don't like this flavor at all! ;(
Just imagine! :o
I use to doubt if there could be any person on this earth who would not love it and there are three samples into my life itself! :p

Babbu, almost hate it and never ever eat anything of chocolate flavor.
Savi, don't eat sweets only and so no question of CHOCOLATE!
Sara, can eat but not die hard like ME! :P

What kind of friends I have? Opposites in all ways! :D

No RULES

There is no hard and fast rule to live life. There is no perfect way to live this life.
There is just one way...
To keep the balance of mind and heart and to know when to use what that can only keep our life simple and moving...

India is independent but not Indian Women...

Don't go here! Don't go there! Don't do this! Don't do that! Don't wear this! Don't wear that! Don't say like this! Don't say like that! Don't... Don't... Don't...
Why but?
Because there can be someone who can molest you if you'll be found alone at a place where not many people would be there.
Because if you wear clothes that exposes your any body part that could invite to a serious threat to your life.
Because if you say anything back to a teaser you never know next time he may harm you beyond avoidable way.
But why should I be controlled?
Why can't people with bad thoughts and intentions try to clear their mind set rather than I be told what to do and what not?

Because you're a woman, you have to be under control of men around you, always. Previously it was at home, only, that woman had man controlling them now it's everywhere...

Is this the way we're supposed to live our lives?

What if same way they get harassed? What if in same way they feel insecure about their safety and life at every walk of life? What if they were said what to do and what not to do by others and they would be supposed to listen to them?

Could anything ever change? I doubt it...
How can you change the mentality of people around you? How can you tell them that how insecure this feeling is? How can you tell people that we too are humans and need human treatment and respect.

For name sake we live in an Independent country but in reality we're still slaves of Men...

A person with good heart and normal looks is much better than a person with better looks but no heart!

One of my friend recently got engaged. (Yeah, after CA suddenly people qualify to get committed too! he he he :) so does she!) When we met she showed me her fianceé's pic! Then she said me, "You know what? In real life you get real and normal people. Only in your dreams you can dream of a perfect life partner. Not all are with heroic physical features, like, tall, fair, breathtaking handsome, etc etc... But when you get to know each other well these matters that previously count very much no longer even exists as a single thought. A person with good heart and normal looks is much better than a person with better looks but no heart!"
I could only smile at this line... :))

Change is best!

You cannot always change others but you can always change yourself!

I know sometimes it's problem with them and how can we change? But we can! By changing our reaction or opinion towards them or by leaving them on their own!
Few people love to learn from their own mistakes so let them fall and then understand rather that we tell them to be cautious and ourselves loose our self-respect when they don't think that it's important for them to change.

Sometimes it's worth not doing something for those who don't need it than we show our care to them.

Life is best teacher

When others teach you, you've an option whether you wanna learn anything from it or not!
But when LIFE decides to teach you then you've to learn...

So, I guess it's always better to learn at your option than at compulsion!
Keep learning...

Happy Teachers Day!

Lost humanity

Switch on any news channel at anytime of any day there is one news fixed, pick up any newspaper daily on front page one headline is fixed- RAPE!

What kind of a place I'm living in I wonder? Is this the kind of life I'm looking for being a woman? This life where I don't know where I'll be teased, accused, molested, sexually harassed, rapped, by any person, no now a days it's group of persons, life where I'm not safe anywhere, nowhere! At office there are men, at streets there are men, in train, bus, auto rickshaw, at shops, bridges, lanes, on internet and at home too there are men and there are these devils too amongst them.
Is this the life that I'm looking for that at the end of the day before sleeping I have a sigh of relief that I'm safe and alive today but I don't know what my tomorrow will be?!
Being parent how can a mother even think of protecting their little angels from the devils present at every walk of life?
If not before but now definitely being a girl is a curse because we've such devils on this earth all around. But I guess I would still prefer being a girl than being a devil!
I don't know if our law can protect a woman or not but I guess we should definitely take incharge of our safety in our hands. We need strong self defence training to strengthen ourselves and show who is strong!
If there exists caring Goddess Parvati who is sweet and nurturing then one should not forget that when the devils try to do their evil acts the same Goddess knows how to become Durga and save her right and self respect!

And for devils, if not anyone can punish you on this earth but I still hope God does exist to give you result of your deeds!