A Lesson In Psychology!!

¤ When A Person Laughs 2 Much Even On Stupid Things, Be Sure That Person Is
Sad Deep Inside.

¤ When A Person Sleeps a lot, Be Sure that Person Is Lonely.

¤ When A Person Talks Less, And If He Talks, He Talks Fast Then It Means That Person Keeps Secrets.

¤ When Someone Can't Cry Then That Person Is Weak.

¤ When Someone Eats In Abnormal Way Then That Person Is In Tension.

¤ When Someone Cry On Little Things Then It Means He Is Innocent & Soft Hearted.

¤ When Someone Gets Angry On Silly Or Small Things It Means He Is In Love.

So True, Try To See All These In Real Life, U Will Find All.

"Difference in Love and Marriage"...

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and
come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders... may be there is a
bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the
previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have
already miss the person..."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and
come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach
the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith
and believe this is the best one you get... This is marriage.

Freedom fight

After listening to what had actually happened with that 23yr old young girl, I actually lost control over my emotions. I felt the pain in my heart, for a girl could always understand the pain. Of course, the one who suffers knows the real pain but being women you can still sense it straight in the heart.
What kind of humanity it could be? No these people cannot be called humans! They aren't. Over and above they say the culprits have no regrets! Why would he have any? He very well knows that he have enough money to throw at law and get himself a bail or otherwise he may spend his rest of life resting in jail till the verdict come. In all they don't have any fear left because there is no power left with judicial system of our country to stop crime and punish criminals.
Something is to be done with all this, everyone feels. So do feel parents of all the girls. And the only option they are left with them is to stop their girl child from going out alone! Or go out at night. Is it right thing to do? Of course not. But do they have any other option? No, they don't. This could also be considered one of the reason why people don't want a girl child because of the risk of her safety involved. Had there been enough security for women things would not have been the way they are. Ask any girl if she had never been teased by any male on road or in public. It is very common. And after a time we women get used to this and start living with it.
We never feel completely safe. I never felt that. We never felt that. Is this the life that we are looking at, at giving ourselves as well as to our future generation? Previous generation didn't wanted to give women freedom for that matter, for no one wanted their daughter, wife, sister, mother to be unsafe. Now things have improved from women working out, persuading higher education but are they safe than before? No, it's just that they have made their place out of great struggle but this is not easy, it was not easy then nor now.
Only they know how much care they take to safeguard themselves. Only they know how much prevention they take. Only they know how much they bear. Only we know!
Are we making women feel that being women is a curse? Yes, if you can't safeguard them you are promoting that being women is curse, that it's still "the male dominated Indian society." Why would any couple want to have a daughter then? Why? Today no one have time to accompany their child each and every place. You and I would be working at our offices and our children would be on their own at school, college or out or even at home, would they be safe? Are they safe now, today? We know the answer, don't we?
The only change that had taken place in our law since it has been formed is in the reservation. Yes, our dear political leaders only know how to pass reservation bill. They don't know how to pass Jan Lokpal Bill, they don't know how to pass a strict law to safeguard evils who assault. They only know how to play game. Political game.
People who protest, for the political leaders, they are those who got no work home hence they come out for their rights. Why we voted them, why are they elected, to beat those who are innocent! Why would they understand things our way? They and their family got enough security of government servants to protect them. Only unsafe are those to whom they are supposed to serve. But instead of being public servants they have become rulers.
Ever persons time come. Soon will be their turn, they should not forget it and in the name of democracy the shield that they are using to protect themselves the same democracy, the same janta has power to bring them down to earth if they can make them the ruling party.

For MEN
You are indeed responsible in all sense to protect the women around them irrespective of they being related to them or not, for the other section of assaulting once are ruining the whole male sections image. In spite they being good no one would be believing them, no one would be respecting them, no one would trust them. Worst is this. To prove others that you are loyal, good, trustworthy. You need to build your good image that other culprits are trying to worsen.

For Parents
Instead teaching your daughter to stay safe, teach your son to respect women.

For Society
We need change over all. We need to fight for our rights and we will. Women is to be respected not to be used. Women is too human being.

For Government
Use your power to change things for the betterment of this society. For inhuman why shall their be humanity treatment? Their shall be some stringent laws such that before committing any such acts one should think thousands of times. For me life imprisonment is not the one and nor the hanged till death one. One is hanged once and it's easy to die once but not to have a traumatic accident and to live with it forever. It's not easy! Can't we have a 'TIT FOR TAT' law. For sexual harassment they shall be harassed same way. Seriously!

For Women
Stop ignoring. Enough of we have ignored small incidents of teasing. That gives them courage to do big crimes for they start thinking that women are weak. Speak out so that once bitten they will be twice shy to do anything of such acts.

PS: Easy to write than do but we need to start from somewhere, it can be from thinking to doing. We need to do it. We need to snatch our rights of living a free life and in real sense achieve freedom for ourselves.

Disclaimer: This blog post is not intended to hurt any section of society, especially males. It's pure intention is to depict what a woman is feelings in such circumstances.