Hand made Chocolates!

I tried making these chocolates @ home!

Hmm... They are really yummy! :)

You can only see them... He he he... :P

I LOVE CHOCOLATES! :)

PUT THE GLASS DOWN!

The Professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. 

He held it up for all to see & asked the students “How much do you think this glass weighs?"

"50gms!"....."100gms!"....."125gms"...the students answered. "I really don't know unless I weigh it" some said

The professor said,"but, my question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?" 

"Nothing"…..the students said. 

"Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?"the professor asked. 

"Your arm would begin to ache"said one of the student 

"You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?" 

"Your arm could go numb; you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis & have to go to hospital for sure!" Ventured another student & all the students laughed

"Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?"Asked the professor.

"No…." Was the answer.

"Then what caused the arm ache & the muscle stress?" 

The students were puzzled. 

"What should I do now to come out of pain?"asked professor again. 

"Put the glass down!"said one of the students 

"Exactly!" said the professor. 

Life's problems are something like this. 

Hold it for a few minutes in your head & they seem OK. 

Think of them for a long time & they begin to ache. 

Hold it even longer & they begin to paralyze you. 

You will not be able to do anything. 

It's important to think of the challenges or problems in your life, but EVEN MORE IMPORTANT is to'PUT THEM DOWN at the end of every day before you go to sleep... That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh & strong & can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way! So, when you start your day, Remember friend to ‘PUT THE GLASS DOWN!

Interesting Reading 24

The Biggest TEMPTATION of life is to convert dreams into reality.

But the biggest defeat of life comes, when we Surrender our dreams to reality!

Peaceful place

When I get too tired the best place that gives me peace is Mumma's lap.
I just love to sleep on her lap and when she message my head, my eyes, we chat so many stuffs and I feel drowsy and never realise when I fell asleep.
This is the place which gives me peace, relief, happiness, patience, safety, love, care, trust, affection, and all other things that could not be described!
Love you Mom!
I love you a lot!
Oops, of course not more than you love me! ;)

Why we have sorrows?

No matter how much you like to eat sweets but beyond a point you won't be able to eat it and you will ask for normal food that have spice in it, as you will be boarded of eating it.
But we never get tired of eating spicy food and hence the li'l proportion of sweet have more value when we eat it less frequently.
Similarly, life cannot be always happy-happy, there are normal days and sorrows in our life and that li'l happiness which we get sometimes adds to the taste to our life otherwise same would have been the result of happiness. If everything would have been good it would have been normal and this life would have been so boring! Isn't it? ;)

So, we have less happiness and more of normal life so that we can realise the happiness as some sort of change to the normal life and so that we keep on expecting from this life!
But that doesn't mean that we should smile occasionally!
Keep Smiling! :D
(Show you teeth lazy!)

Interesting Reading 23

Whenever you are criticised, do not get upset just remember 

"No stones are thrown on a fruitless tree"

I have become stupid sensitive girl!

There were times when I would bath with cold water in the winter, would go to school without wearing sweater or even if Mom would force me to wear it, I would remove it as soon as I leave home. I would eat ice-cream in any season. Would fight with bro to sleep just beneath the fan and would regulate fans speed to highest and would hardly cover myself with the woolen blankets. So was I till few years back but I seemed to have completely become a typical sensitive girl!
A girl who don't bath till the water is hottest, without adding any cold water to it. Since, the beginning of this winter I got cold and in spite of all precautions I'm still not able to get over it even if cold is cured, I'm coughing day in and day out or rather even night in and night out. Now I fight with bro to switch off the fan rather than having a place beneath it, I go in the corner and sleep. Even though I cover myself with blanket at night Mom could still find me in shrinking position, when she wakes up and by the time I get up I find myself buried in loads of blankets over me! Mom always know what I need, even if I don't express it, she could always sense it all. When in the morning Mom wake me up, I ask her to switch off the fan first, only then I could gather courage to come out of the bed! At class I was the only one who would never ask to switch off the A/C and my place was just in front of it and now I'm the one who crib when somebody switch on the fans. My friends too give me a look when I do so, asking what have happened to me? Now, I wrap a shawl and only then leave from home and above this Mom would ask me to wear thick clothes, may be she still doubts that I'll remove it soon I leave home but reality is I keep it wrapped it almost the whole lecture. Though one thing is still constant that I can still eat ice-cream no matter how cold it is but my friends get emotional on this that I'm having cold and cough and they don't let me eat!
I wonder what I've become! I use to boost about my strength of bearing the winter and now same friends tease me that I can't bear even this much of minimum cold!
All because of that nonsense, crap Jaundice which I had and because of which my immune system had become so weak that I've become so sensitive. That even the mild cool breeze gives me shivering. I'm embarrassed with this behavior of mine! I was the Tigress and now I've become like a sensitive cat!
I hate it! ;(

MERRY CHRISTMAS

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Dying Disciplines

No, it's not dying, 'coz it's already dead.
Students are not students they are funky mates. When lectures are going and people eat chocolates or some snacks, in fact open the wrappers so noisily and disturbs everyone, instead of them I fear, what if teacher comes to know? It just irritate me when I see them doing so. There is no discipline left.
People easily claim that they have not done the Home Work as if it is something to boost about, with their past history saying that they haven't done it since the school days then how could they improve in the almost last year of their studies! It's like they never did good in their whole life then how will they get heaven by doing some good deed when they are on the death bed, so they prefer not doing it as they know it will not yield them anything so it's better to not do good now as well. I wish if they would have had some sort of discipline in them.
Punctuality, don't ask me about it! It's for those who don't have time. Those who don't have any useful stuff to do they prefer being on time so that they can waste it behind those who have many useful stuffs to do and hence they always get late and since we don't have any great deeds to do we reach on time and wait for those busy people, in this way even un-punctual get importance as well as those who have extra time can use it judiciously by waiting for those important and busy people.
There is always a particular manner of behaving at different places. You can't always feel at home when you are not, for all those who prefer playing songs on the speakers at public place. Please get your headphones with you and enjoy your collection don't unnecessarily try to entertain us, we have very much personal sources available with us to entertain ourselves and we will help ourselves. Thanks to you from the bottom of my heart for taking those efforts! I will be obliged if you would not help us.
How many of us work in an environment where your subordinates are elder to you in age and experience but since you have the knowledge you work as a Senior and he as your junior. But, does that mean that we can't give them respect? I don't understand the correlation between age, designation to respect. If somebody happens to be at junior position but elder in age terms, why don't we prefer taking to them with all respect? Why we prefer them saying tu rather than aap? Don't we have values in us? There are my friends who are elder to me and I always prefer saying them aap, even though they say that they don't like it, but I had never said tu to any of my elders and hence can't say to them as well and my parents have always taught me to respect elders let them be anyone. Have you ever respected your driver, sweeper, Peon, servant, etc.? Why isn't there any need to do so?

Mumma's Theory!

"Jo chehra humare khayalon mein hota hai, wo humein haquiqat mein kabhi nahi milta"

So, never expect too much and never compare anyone with anybody! We all are different and imaginations can very rarely become reality!

A Girls Dream...

"...every girl dreams, that there comes her Prince Charming who would kneel down on his knees and propose her with a diamond ring*!"


*here diamond ring is indication to the proposal and make her love happy, it's more about feeling, girls love diamonds, so do I. But all that matter finally is feelings. They wish that their dreams come true. That somebody loves them and say it with all their heart out and with due respect.
Haina Girls?! ;)

Interesting Reading 22

Bitter Truth:
The Day you Accept the Fact that you are not at all Important for the person who is Most Important for you is the day you start Pretending that you are Happy.......!! :D

:(

Greetings

 Greeting-1

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Greeting-2 

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Mine was greeting-1 & my colleague gave greeting-2

C. A. Journey

All my friends would crib about their Articleship, boss and the fight, 
But I always felt lucky being in your firm and thanks to you that you made this journey so delight.


You always cared like an elder and gave me the knowledge we needed.
But when I did mistakes I also got scolded.


No I haven't forgot that you even praised me for the good work I did.
And the way this journey has become so splendid.


You made me smile in your own humorous way and I enjoyed those moments thoroughly.
You allowed me to leave on time for my class so that I can even study sincerely.


You builded the passion in audit and made me learn taxation.
These were just subjects before you taught me their practical implication. 


I tried to help you as much possible by giving my best and it was possible for you helped me to learn the rest of the best.


Thanks for keeping the patience till I learned,
I'm happy with the knowledge I have earned.


I had fun working with you and it seemed like a boon.
I hope you always remain happy and may we meet sometimes soon.


They say happy times pass very soon and now I believe that its true,
as these 3 years passed like wind flew.


I enjoyed this journey for you were good and helpful and understood me in all ways. 
Hence I learned to love my work always.


You have had articles in past and will have many in future too but I had only one boss that too so sweet and all thanks to you.


I felt it best being your subordinate hope I made you happy too, 
I will always remember you hope you will remember me too.


This was the Poem I wrote for my boss!

Will Miss it.

Got leave from office and finally in a way the journey of Articleship has ended. These 3.5 years passed by very soon, I wonder. The last day was too tough to handle, looking at my boss I was getting too emotional about this whole thing of last day.
Finally, a thing that I will not regret is that I did few special things for him that I wanted to. Mostly, I just end up thinking about things and day just pass by without me actually doing those things, sometimes out of shyness or sometimes just laziness or postponement end up in me doing nothing and just keeping the plans on paper and finally they die. But this time I did it! :)
I planned to give him a greeting card to say that he was one of the best persons I have met and he was actually a mentor who guided me in the best possible way anyone could expect.
So, I bought a greeting and planned to give it with chocolates. Suddenly a day before last day some thoughts came up in my mind and I quickly grabbed my cell out of my bag and started typing the words in a flow. And finally ended up making a poem sorts for my boss and the journey of my Articleship.
Oh! I can remember how my boss became speechless when I was about to leave. He did not even look at me during whole day. In last moment he came from his seat and sat next to me and just started chatting about general stuffs. I felt good talking to him, as it made me feel less emotional. When I sit silently I get too emotional. When I keep talking it gets easy to hide emotions.
When I stood up, as it was time to leave, I was not finding words to ask him and he was looking like he wanted to say something but not getting words to express himself.
I lifted my bag and finally for the last time asked for his permission to leave. He simply nodded and I remembered that during whole period of my Articleship how he  always taunted me for leaving early for my class and I would just ignore his comments and laughingly walk out of office.
He was like an elder brother, always cared for me, at audits I would use his name for getting things done in my way, and whenever client would ask him to confirm if he had said any such thing he always supported without any prior settings with him. He would purposely irritate me by asking questions repeatedly again and again and finally stop only when I give him a bad look. I always respected him like I respect my teachers.
He always supported me and gave importance to me in front of clients. Whenever he would get a call from a client to whom he don't want to talk he would give it to me to tell he was busy, and I would do that for him very convincingly.
When I didn't get P.C. to work he would give his P. C. to me. Once, I was working on his P.C. he wanted some information, I was working and wanted to finish my work before leaving for class and I asked him to wait for few min and he waited but then I forgot that he was waiting and kept doing my work, finally he went to another employee, cribbing that I'm not giving him details and I realised oops! He is my boss and it's his P.C.
He always judged me correctly that I love audits and hence always preferred me assigning audits over my other colleagues! But he would also give me so many queries to answer and I would wonder as if I was writing Audit paper, after that answering him orally would give me feel of oral examination of audit. We were audit freak! ;) :P
He never used his authority on us. He would purposely taunt me, but that too to show off that he is the boss! We would enjoy his this behavior very joyfully! Nothing was ever serious between us, not even his scoldings, after few minutes he himself would come and tell how to do things for whatever wrong I do.
He is such a jolly person and the best thing about him is that he never ever take out others anger on somebody else. If he is angry on phone on something wrong done by somebody and after he hung up if I'm to interact with him, he totally forgets about that worry and judge me on my deeds.
I'll miss his bad jokes which would actually make me laugh. All his unique features, his gujju tone, his speed of working, I wish if I could ever be hyper active in working like him! I had never seen him in a lazy mood or sleepy, never ever! He is the person who is always alive and so speedy that I could never match up with his speed.
I'll miss my Articleship.
I'll miss my boss.
I'll miss my office colleagues.
Lucky me to have a boss like him and articleship like this.

I'm still alive

I was on audit at G. T. B Nagar, it's in Harbour Line. I had to report at 9.30am. I left from home around 7.45am. All was well. I got the desired fast train to reach Kurla in the expected time and then I got ticket for G. T. B. Nagar and boarded train as well. Its just next station from Chunabhatti.
I was standing in the train and was waiting eagerly for it to start but it did not listen to me but soon I listened an announcement that there was some problem in that route and passengers are allowed to go from other route i.e. from Sandust Road. I got down and crossed the bridge and reached the platform from where I can get the other routes train, though it was too long cut  but could not think much on it and was waiting for the fast train towards C. S. T. to come, so that I can get reach Byculla and then from there again get down to slow route and go to Sandust Road and from there finally to G. T. B. Nagar Station.
Train was to arrive, there was crowd than usual, or may be not, but since I had never boarded train from Kurla that I felt its crowded. Train stopped, people quickly got down, those who wanted to and others quickly started getting in like me. I struggled hard to get in and with my right hand I grabbed the middle rod and with other hand one of the doors handle. I didn't had space to keep any of my foot. My colleague was to my left and she too was in such condition. She then asked if we should leave this train as there was no place. She still had her footstep on the foot board, I was struggling to keep at least one foot. Before I could decide to get down, the train slowly picked up and finally I answered my colleague that train has started and we would not be able to get down, our back was facing the platform. We were asking people to get inside. I was still struggling to keep my foot. Finally my right foots toe found some place. Soon I noticed that I'm too much hanging out of the train. I was in the very first ladies car towards C. S. T. There was one luggage car between the first ladies and the drivers cabin. The boys were shouting at me to get in quickly, on the other side my colleague was shouting that she will fall. The boys again shouted that there are pillars and if I were to hang out this much I would surely get hit by them. I leaned my body inside quickly as much possible, as I saw one of the pillar approaching. Finally boys asked the driver to halt the train for I was not able to help myself much. There was no place for me to get in. I was still on one toe but my hands had good grip. The train stopped in between for few minutes. Ladies in front of me were begging others that were ahead of them, to get inside for I was in danger.
My colleague was too shouting out and was almost in about to cry situation. Soon there was some space. I could now keep my both footsteps in the train. My colleague got in completely. Train again started, slowly. I was still on the door, but with fair space, some inquired if I'm fine? Some scolding that I should not take this much risk! Boys were still staring and advising that I should get in quickly and not wait and hang till the last moment. I was not able to control myself and was only smiling at them for unknown reasons, if you would know me, it's my normal behavior. I always smile :) Boys were staring me with a question mark on their face as to I'm some mad person. I thanked them. My colleague was looking at me and I could see her, she was shivering. Looking me laughing, she too smiled. Boys were still looking at me that I'm smiling, they don't know me so they were very much puzzled. As, if there would have been any other girl in my condition she would have till now cried buckets of tears according to one of the Aunt. Soon my stop was to come and I got in heading towards the next door where the station would come. There was so much of crowd. People inside were asking me, if I was the one who was hanging and I was nodding. Then they gave me all their  advice, some got angry as if I did it purposely. Never mind, I heard all of them patiently. Finally I got down and thought that finally there would not be any more questions and wise advice. But before I could conclude this relief one girl inquired if I was fine? and I replied that I didn't got hurt and am very fine.
My colleague was getting emotional about all this even though she was to my left and she had both her footsteps on the train and was still shouting at the top of her voice and there was me who was relaxed even though others panicked looking me and that too if boys react so seriously it indicates that the matter was actually serious. She was looking at my face and I was still smiling.

We then boarded train from Sandust Road to our final destination. And we reached the audit place at 11.30am where we would have reached if things would have worked well around 9.45am.
So plans change!

It still exists

Me: Today my cousins sis had a baby girl, wow! m happy. :)
Friend 1: first child?
Me: Nay, she already have a daughter, in fact coincidentally all the three cousin sisters of mine have daughters as their first child! Now they want to see if I'll continue the trend or not. But they'll have to wait more and more for it. ;) :P
Friend 1: OOH second child also a girl, then there might be a different environment isn't it?
Me: yeah, thought she is at native and I haven't yet talked to her but I can imagine what might be happening!
Friend 1: I can remember when I was about to born my dad was not there and after my birth when my relatives called to my dad they were sad to inform him but my dad declared that I always knew that I'll have a baby girl. And my relatives asked him that you already have a daughter then why you wanted a daughter again? And my dad replied that my first daughter loves and care for me so much that I want more love and care so I wanted one more daughter. Simple! :)
Friend 2: My grandmother actually cried because I was also a girl and my Di was the first child.
Me: How rude is that, but you know what, my Mom always say that she actually prayed to God to have a baby girl. I was by choice and not by chance! I know that they had a baby boy already and hence it doesn't matter much if then you have a daughter but still the generation in which we borned was still not that modern that anybody would wish to have a daughter child but my Mom did. She always said that she use to pray and ask God to give her a daughter and all my relatives would say that since she was fond of a girl she will not have a girl child and when I was born she was very very happy. :)
Friend 1: Hmm... We can see that! In fact till you told us about your bro I always thought that you are single child.
Friend 2: I have been to her house so many times and the way her Mom pamper her and she behave so immaturely...
Me: Chup na... (covering her mouth)
But you know one of my cousin brother also have two daughters and at the time of second child everybody expected to have a baby boy and as usual every one was disappointed but now you would not believe the way she is brought up, now her grandparents don't let her mother go to her parents house because they can't live without those two granddaughters. I don't understand that why should they behave so at the time of birth, I can't even imagine that how it might be feeling when you come to know that your own family was not happy when you were born.
Of course we don't decide who we want to be, a boy or a girl? Then why revenge kind of is taken out from girls. And mostly females of the family would only do all such things, I don't know why they forget that they are also somebody's daughter. Women are their own enemies.
Friend 1: chill now, it's part of our life. No matter we like or not but it still exists.
ME: Yeah, we can only say that from the outer heart but these kind of distinctions happens and don't know till when it will happen? All I know is, it's sad to have such people around and I hate them. Really! Very much! :/

Interesting Reading 21

All are born alike in this world...
But only few are gifted to know about all their strengths and weaknesses...
Each time you find a problem before you, thats the opportunity to know them...
So, Think twice before running away from them or leaving it to destiny, because you may not have another opportunity to know yourself...

Interesting Reading 20

Fri(END)
Boyfri(END)
Girlfri(END)
Bestfri(END)
Everything has an END Except...
... Fam(ILY) <= it has (I LOVE YOU)

Interesting Reading 19

‎"The whole idea that children are your possession is wrong.
They are born through you, but they do not belong to you.
You have a past, they have only a future.
They are not going to live according to you.
To live according to you will be almost equivalent to not living at all.
They have to live according to themselves — in freedom, in responsibility, in danger, in challenge." 

Osho

Interesting Reading 18

Out of all the relations we make in our journey of life till our last breath....

The relation with "MOTHER" is 9 months more.....!!!

LOVE YOU MOM :* :* :*

Mumma, Bhoooo……

Today I didn’t had evening class so I reached home around 7pm. When I knocked the door, Bro opened and I went directly in the Bedroom along with my Bag. Mom was in Kitchen but she saw me going in. After I changed, I came out from the room hanging the bag on my shoulders as I usually do when I go to class. I came in hall, Mom saw me as I passed by the kitchen. But she wondered as to why I hanged my bag around my shoulders?

As soon as I entered the hall Bro closed the door which was open since I entered. I dropped my Bag near the Sofa. Mom heard the noise of the closing door and asked who has come? Bro answered her that no one has come but I had shut the door and went to class. I quickly read my Bro’s evil mind and ran to the second room and hided behind the rooms door, carefully along with my Bag before Mom come out to see me. 

Mom entered the hall and murmured that this is not possible I always go class directly from office and I had informed her in the morning that I don’t have class in the evening but only in the morning. Bro started convincing Mom that I had said that class is from 8pm so I came home and went back. 

Whenever there is any such hide-n-seek game Mobile phone is bound to play its role in some or other way. No, my cell didn’t rang but I forgot it on the sofa. Mom took this as strong evidence that I was at home, as I hardly forget my cell phone at home. Bro attempted an excuse that in hurry I forgot it but Mom without paying any heal to Bro’s comments started searching me. I was having fun in dark room, I covered my mouth as was not able to control my laughter but I was consciously listening to whatever was happening. Mom opened the main Door to see if I’m hiding outside, but I was not there. Neighborhood door was open and Mom asked the Aunt if she saw me going down stairs? The lady denied that she was inside hence didn’t know. Mom murmured that our neighbors are of no use and returned back. Bro was smiling and trying to prove Mom that what he is saying is correct and I went to class. 

Finally, Mom approached towards the room where I was hiding, as she knows her daughter and her mischief! She didn’t give up. I went back more close to the wall. As soon as Mom entered I knew that she won’t be able to see anything and I shouted out loudly Bhoooo... 

Mom got scared and shouted and we both went out of the room, Mom was shivering, Bro and I were not able to control our laughter we were literally rolling on floor… Dad finally showed some signs of presence and smiled. Mom attempted to slap us but we escaped successfully! :P Mom joined us in the laughter ride after recovering from the thrill, horror and anger.
We all were laughing out loudly.
When such incidents take place, I and Bro keep on laughing till we go dead! Even if we stop for once, again when we see each others face we burst out into same laughter.
OMG! My stomach is paining; in fact my cheeks are also paining...
:D

Mom remembered that she forgot the chapati on the pan and it burned totally! Ooops...
But it was so much fun, Wow!!!!
:)

Interesting Reading 17

‎15 GREAT THOUGHTS BY CHANAKYA :

1) "Learn from the mistakes of others... you can't live long enough to make them all yourselves!!"

2)"A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and Honest people are screwed first."
3)"Even if a snake is not poisonous, it should pretend to be venomous."
4)"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth."
5)" Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead."
6)"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it."
7)"The world's biggest power is the youth and beauty of a woman."
8)"Once you start working on something, don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest."
9)"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction."
10)"God is not present in idols. Your feelings are your god. The soul is your temple."
11) "A man is great by deeds, not by birth."
12) "Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness."
13) "Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them. By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."
14) "Books are as useful to a stupid person as a mirror is useful to a blind person."
15) "Education is the Best Friend. An Educated Person is Respected Everywhere. Education beats the Beauty and the Youth."

That li'l angel

I was in train, listening to songs and saw this li'l angel running here and there. She was a dark but her beauty was very attractive to force me to come out of my music world. I was trying to stop her but she was outta reach. When the lady next to the seat of mine called her out then she came to a stand still mode for few moments. The lady bought few bindi packets from the li'l angel and she paid her. I was staring at her continuously, she noticed me and gave me a smile. I smiled back in anticipation and asked for the bindi basket to buy some. We were still smiling at each other for some unknown reasons. I started search in the basket to get few bindies, in the mean time she again started running from here to there collecting money from people who bought and still to pay and to those whom she had to return the excess amount. I was done with my selection and was trying to fetch her to ask for the price that I'm supposed to pay her. I called her twice and She never heard it, finally when somebody asked for the basket that she remembered that I exist and came running to me and requested, didi ho jayega to unhe de dena and was about to run back but I fetched her and finally asked if she can take out some time and tell me how much I'm supposed to pay her?! We again smiled to each other and I gave her money and She was supposed to give me the change. She again ran to somebody and got me the change. She was to return me Rs.40 back. She was in front of me with money in her hands but she was doing something. I was by that time looking at her with some thoughts in my mind. Finally, she was done with her stuffs to which I thought that she was calculating the money but what she did was then clear to me when she handed back to me those 40 rupees change.
She had placed two notes of ten above and below and in between she folded the rest two notes by folding them in halfs horizontally and then folded all of them in to half. I looked at the creativity and smiled. She was waiting there in front of me to see some reaction. I thanked her and we again smiled to each other.
I was wondering if she could wait for few moments and have some talk with me but that was not possible she took her basket from the lady and settled everything and was about to get down. I searched in my bag to see if I have something for her, but I didn't had any chocolates to give her. :(
I knew that she could not wait more and finally she got down with her stuffs.
May be she would start some Other Journey!
May God Bless Her! May she always smile like that :)

Other side of the coin

Me: Hi, so you are looking out for jobs?

friend: Yeah, I'm trying for Finance but it's tough to get there everyone wants minimum 5-7years of work experience!

Me: Ya, I have seen few vacancies on our institutes site whose requirements were such. I wonder how you can get experience until you actually start working. :)

friend: Let’s see if I get calls, I've applied at few places.

Me: All the best!

friend: So what would you like to do after you get the degree?

Me: Don't worry me don't like finance much...

friend: Ya ya, you Women always have some different criteria. You all want a job where there should not be much work, timing should be after 10am but you should be leaving office before 6pm, you want 5 working days job and weekend leave, blah blah...

Me: Yup! You are right bro, because Woman know that after 6pm our family also needs us, when she will reach home there will not be food ready on the table but she will have to prepare it and keep it ready so that when her children and husband comes home she can serve them hot food when they are hungry. She knows that her children would need her for sharing their schools activity, they might need her to help them with their Homework; they might wish to spend Sunday time with their Mom. Others can come at home and go but for her it's not just a Mansion but a place where they dwell so she has the responsibility of its cleaning and dusting. Even though Men and Women would have spent equal amount of sleepless nights in studying, even though they would have worked hard equally at the workplace, even though their aspirations would be of achieving the same success, even though their Parents spend same sum for building their carriers but we always forget that the nature has itself made Woman different from Man. She can work with equal enthusiasm but she also knows that she is the one who is supposed to take care of her family, she is the one who is supposed to leave her Parents house, the one with whom she had spent so many year even though she love them so much but she has to leave them for that one Man even though you may call that Women are too emotional but she is the one who face that separation. She knows that she is supposed to carry a baby in her womb for 9months, she is the one who is supposed to take those pains and mind you those who go through only know it. Even though you may say that Woman is weak but God knows who can bear what and so he has decided who should bear that pain as well. She is the one who knows that her baby needs her, at that time she don't think that she had spent sleepless nights and studied but she knows that she will have to spend more sleepless nights and take care of her child. She quits her job and keeps aside all her aspirations which she had when she was young and single, but she knows that with time she needs to change her priorities. And she even knows that soon her child would forget all her sacrifices and may be when he grows up he would be more proud of her father that he is a Director but not of her mother who might be having equal degree and opportunities but she would have sacrificed all this for him who now thinks that Women are less successful. How many Men quit so that they can take care of their children? I haven’t yet heard of even one! May be my short of knowledge but I can bet that the ratio will be not that countable.

Don't forget, behind every successful Man there is a Woman. Had this woman have not been there you would have been forced to at least share the chores. It's her modesty that she quit for you, so that you as a Working person can grow with your aspirations and dreams and as a child you can know the values and love of being a human. It's comparatively easy to strive at work than to see your dreams dying in front of you or rather kill it by yourself with the known fact that this sacrifice of your might go overlooked. But the one who do so much will definitely not think such credits. She do it for she knows how to love.

Why this Kolaveri?

Why this Kolaveri?

I'm unable to understand why people are going crazy about this song?
And hence again I've successfully proved that I had never liked things that usually people like.
Sorry to those who love it, for I didn't find any reason of liking it, in fact I gave it a honest try and listened to it but as soon as the song started, I started laughing and it made me ROFL.
Funny song, but still could bear it only once, not more than that....

Rest who love it, please enjoy it!


Me happy with my old collections! :)

I'm who I'm

Friend: Hey, that girls smile is just like yours!

ME: What? Where?

Friend: That one… ( pointing at someone in the train)

ME: I can’t see...

... and tune meri smile kisi aur se compare ki?! ;(

Friend: Muje pata tha tu aise bolegi, isiliye maine kaha! ;) :D

ME: Very Funny! Huh… :/ :p

I don't like being compared, she knows!!!!!!

For Mom...

My mom carried me in her womb for nine months...
She felt sick for months with nausea, then she watched her feet swell & her skin stretch & tear; she struggled to climb stairs, she got breathless quick; she suffered many sleepless nights. She then went through excruciating pain to bring me into this world. 
Then, she became my nurse, my chef, my maid, my chauffeur, my biggest fan, my teacher, & my best friend. She's struggled for me, cried over me, hoped the best for me, & prayed for me. 
Most of us take our mom for granted, don't do that for she is precious than anything you could ever get...
Love you Mommy!!! :*


read this on FB, it's really heart touching... ;(

Interesting Reading 16

The words of Christ "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock,and it shall be opened unto you." 

These words are literally true, not figures or fiction... 

Was there anything you did not get which you really wanted? It could not be. For it is the want that creates the body. It is the light that has bored the
holes, as it were, in your head, called the eyes. If the light had not existed, you would have had no eyes. It is sound that had made the ears. The object of perception existed first, before you made the organ."

Only Love is Real -the story of Soulmates reunited

Recently came across this book on one bookstall. Could not resist from buying it.
Reading it. It's indeed great book on reincarnation & real love stories.
I can remember my musing regarding if the Soul mates thing really exists?
And may be this can be considered as an answer to my question.
The book is by Dr. Brian Weiss

His First book is, "Many Lives. Many Masters"
"Only Love is Real" is his second book
and Other one is "Same Soul Many Bodies"

Bought the second one first, but now I have Many Lives. Many Masters as well, will read after I finish this one.
Haven't yet found Same Soul Many Bodies. But will read that one as well.
I liked it, you can try, if you like reading LOVE STORIES.

You can relate the book with the show that once came on T. V. named, "Raaz Pichle Janam Ka" I believed in that and I'm believing in this book as well.

If you have any suggestions, then they are most welcome.

Happy Reading! :)

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RoCk StAr!!!!!!

I guess many of us have seen it, can read the response on my FB wall. I never thought that people would like it since I liked it (in bit's to be specific!) but as it was an emotional as well as sad ending movie I thought not may people, especially those who are practical would not like and more of Boys/Males would not like it.
But I'm proved wrong here I guess! ;) Every one almost have a review saying Rock Star ROCKSSS!!!!!!!
I didn't liked it that much that I say so. Actually the over all theme was good. I'm a MOVIE crazy person but more than that I'm very very crazy behind LOVE STORIES!
Yeah, show me any love story, I would/should (by default) Love it.
But then what I don't like is vulgarity, which is now a days common thing. I don't like the unnecessary exposure or bad scenes which are not needed or which drives to the conclusion that to love each other you need to have any sort of Physical relation with that person.
I liked Mausam for that simple fact, in spite of they being separated due to some reasons but they kept loving each other. Now that's called a neat & clean movie. I know I'm talking like a person from 70's may be. But that's what the real ME is...
But what I like (those bits) in the movie was that Star's life that they showed and I was thinking that yes it is indeed not that easy to be a star. There are all eyes on you. And how I hate that stardom thing, I like privacy and that made me like my Profession more than what I do since the start.
I love my profession, rest things apart for e.g. people cheating and all but that's their personal values, but you get all the independence and privacy and you are a normal human being.
I liked songs as well, but had to shut my ears when they were being played, But they were meaningful, I hated when my favorite song was played and that too in the end and all people wanted to walk out. What a rubbish behavior! :/
Ranbir's dressing sense was pathetic in it, I didn't liked. New girl was ok ok, was too white but then when they showed her as a bone marrow patient then she suited the role in a better way. Her lips were bad, other wise she was looking ok ok!
And boys were passing too much unnecessary comments which made me angry. Thank fully the boy sitting next to me got shifted and after interval some girl who was with him I guess, replaced him, :D Good job girl! God Bless You!
I was more comfortable then...
Oh, how can I forget the limitation part, according to my friend, she (the actress) should have cried a bit more, when she was walking with tears in her eyes towards Ranbir and then they HUG each other. Hope Imtiaz had noted this point of my friend, she was so unsatisfied that she was thinking about writing a letter to Imtiaz but I told her that I'll convey this message of her to him, hope you noted it, Imtiaz!
And what my friend like was the scene when the Kashmiri girl runs with her sandals in her hands & Ranbir runs behind her!
Hmm... Can remember it.
I don't have any such favorite scene as such. Will have to see movie once again, probably after exams.
Coincidentally, I & my friend end up watching Imtiaz movie, and we do love it.
Our still favorite is LOVE AAJ-KAL, what a movie!
I like true love thing that these people show!
After all they know where to hit the audience and that's what they do as well...
Lastly read this as one of the status on FB,
"Based on psychological study, a crush only lasts for a maximum of 4 months........... If it exceeds, you are already in love...."

Dekha my friend! Maine kaha tha na! But you don't believe me... :(

Phew!! I have written too much than what I thought I would but chalta hai... ;)

Some strange laws...

Everything What We Want… 

Comes After We Stop Looking For It.

Why it happens so?

Have personally experienced this and I wonder how to react to get the things I want?

Should I actually stop thinking about them so that I can get them as early as possible, if this above rule applies in the way written. But if I want it so strongly how can I stop looking for it?

Irony of LIFE!!!   :(

I think I've before discussed this philosophy in some post, can't recollect in which one? 

Bad Memory! :( 

11/11/11

♥ every one is boosting about this ♥
So why not me? ;)

Let's see what special happens with this date being special! If you happen to think so.

Interesting Reading 14

"Do not get upset with people or situations....

both are powerless without your reaction...."

Yeh Rishtey-Naatey!

The most difficult thing about life is to understand it.
I'm not able to understand myself, how should I understand others?
But when I expect others to understand me and my feeling, how can I escape from their expectations?

For few people THE MONEY is every thing, to them their value in my life will remain to that value of MONEY only! No matter what relation they have with ME.

I'm afraid of these relations!

I'm still living to learn how to live!

Interesting Reading 13

‎"God pairs the souls in heaven and release's them onto earth, for it is up to those to find one another if true love was meant to be"

I wonder, if TRUE LOVE & SOUL MATES thing exists!?

It’s more than enough now!

I give my book to my friends, I wonder if they should be called as friend for they do such things which hurt me, and they forget to bring that book back when we have that subjects lecture.
Yesterday was costing lecture and my dear friend took my book to complete her book and forgot to bring it back! This was the second time that she did so. Last time it was Tax notebook.
When she exclaimed that she had forgotten, I thought that may be she is kidding; I usually try to horrify my friends so. But that was all true.
Even when first time this happened I just tried to control myself and didn’t busted out on her but repeating the same mistake again is too much and then expecting me to again forgive you is more than anything anyone could ever expect from a person like me!

Just because I have fun and kind of a happy-go-lucky doesn’t really mean that I would tolerate everything and take it as lightly as other things.
But still I tried to not say out any harsh thing that would make me regret later on that I got angry on such trivial thing which is not that trivial to me than for others.
I give my book to them to complete theirs and they make me write the stuffs in rough for they forgot that I gave them my book and then in the end my book is incomplete. May be sincerity word is just a boring thing for others but not for me.
Sometimes I feel that since the day I have realised that I'm very short tempered and I should not get angry on others from that day people have started testing my patience to that level that is impossible for me to achieve. Still when I control, they want me to talk to them normally, now this is just not possible and please don’t ever attempt to make me speak something, as my silence in itself means that I’m trying not to say anything rude that would hurt you for your own acts. But no, people just don’t want to understand things in your way.

Now I think I should give it a serious thought as to with whom I should share my stuffs and to whom I should strictly refuse. It would be better for me.

Respect Others :/

Respect others, for by disrespecting them you hurt them as well as to those who respect them! :/

It's all in the mind

No matter you do what, after a point of time it will become monotonous and you will be bored of it and will want a break. You can't do an activity continuously even if it's your favourite one.
Law of DMU is applicable to almost everything, even to your work job! If you agree.
But people hardly accept this fact and run too much behind things that they feel is good and they are made for doing that work only. Then how is it that they can get bored of doing it? And until they got it they were unhappy now they have it all and still they are unhappy! (What is Happiness then?)
That is why, I'm not yet specific and too attached to one carrier option only, as on. So that no matter what I get I'll do it and then decide that I'm fit for it or not. Hence anything will be ok ok for me initially. :)
Sometimes, confusion is good. :)

Knowing priorities (and sequence)

My wife stood before me and had some items in front of her.

Without a word, she picked up and emptied a large jar of mayonnaise and proceeded to fill the empty jar with rocks right to the top, rocks about 2" diameter, then asked me if the jar was full.

I agreed that it was.



So my wife then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them in to the jar. She shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks. My wife then asked me if the jar was now full.

I agreed that, yes, it was.



She then picked up a bag of sand and proceeded to pour it into the jar with the result that the sand filled up the remaining spaces between the rocks and pebbles.



"Now," said my wife, "I want you to recognize that this is your life. The rocks are the important things - your family, your wife who loves you, your health, your children - anything that is so important to you that if it were lost, you would be nearly destroyed. The pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller scale. The pebbles represent things like your job, your house and your car. The sand is everything else. The small stuff. You X-box, FootBall, the pub, porn. If you put the sand or the pebbles first, there is no room for the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your energy and time on the small stuff, material things, you will never have room for the things that are truly most important." I was dumbfounded.

Expressive Babies...

Love story of a young man ...

Love story of a young man:








I used to be like this?







I met a gal?



she was like this...




I gave her gifts like this?






When she accepted my proposal, I was like this?






I used to talk to her all night like this







and at office used to do this...



When my friends saw my gal friend, they stared like this?




and I used to react like this?

BUT on Valentine Day, she gave red roses to someone else like this? ;(

AND, I was like this?



Which later led to this.




I felt like doing this...





I started doing this

 

 
And this