Just do it!

Whenever you think of doing something good for somebody. Just do it at once. Don't give it a second thought. If you keep on thinking, you'll end up doing nothing. So, for some things, you should do it than think more on it.
Today I did my bit! The happiness it gives is tremendous. I'm happy about it. I'm stepping ahead with all those things I wanted to do. Feeling lighthearted, good!
Keep up the good work! :)

Somewhere, it's always same with all

Whenever you see or think of a person you always assume that the person is/will be/does things perfectly. But that's not the fact, every person goes through normal phase of success and failure, where they do plan things in a perfect fashion, but then even they fail in performing those things, even their plans fail, even they fail in doing things in that particular fashion how they planned! So it's very normal thing. It's just that we always assume that other could/would be doing things how they should i.e. in an ideal way. But we forget that after all we all are human beings at the end of the day! :-)

That's it

Finally, I've decided that I'll never ever give my books to anybody to read. They return it in such pathetic condition that, I want to kill them for this. Only because killing is a crime that those people are alive in this world. Huh! Enough of I've thought of sharing my stuffs. They don't know but for me, all my Books are my Babies, Course Books or Novels, I preserve them all like my life. And somebody spoiling them, I can't bear it anymore. I've so many times warned my friends to not to forward my books in to their friend circle, but no! they don't want to obey my instructions, then fine! I'll also decide finally with whom I have to share my stuffs and with whom I don't.

ipaidabribe.com

http://ipaidabribe.com

Visit this site, it's very interesting.
One more interesting thing is the Quiz section. I played it and the result was this:-

A Zebra!

Zebra! Your corruption quotient is like a pendulum; oscillating. You are confused about what corruption means on the ground. Your case can still swing either way. We suggest that you get a grip the next time you swing the honest way. When faced with a corrupt situation your rationale will definitely put you in a fix. You are a ZEBRA in the savannah of corruption.

Well, I need to know more & clearly is all that I can guess out of this Zebra title, which they have given me. 

Try and answer these questions & see what you get! :)

Comparison of Jan Lokpal and Govt. Lokpal by Dr. Kiran Bedi

Mr. Stranger

Day before yesterday, I went to Bandra Terminus, to receive my Uncle and Aunt. The train was supposed to arrive at 10.30am, I reached on time (hope no doubt! :p). I waited for one hour but there were no signs of its arrival. Then finally there was announcement that train will reach till 11.45am I occupied myself near the bench which was available on the platform. I took my books out of my bag and started studying (was revising Accounts). There was this person who was sitting next to me, he was in complete White Kurta. I was busy with my accounts sums, suddenly he asked me, where I want to go? I told him that, I came to receive my Uncle and Aunt. He said that he was going back to his place and was here, to Mumbai for few days because of work. Coincidental our native place was same. He was happy to know that, people do like such coincidences. I was indifferent, as usual. He said that he is the General Manager in the BOB bank; I told him that I'm a C. A. final student. By this time it was 12am. I was supposed to drop my Uncle & Aunt in the correct train so that they can reach my place and I was to go back to Audit place, but that seemed impossible as of now.
I hadn't eaten anything since morning and was very hungry, Mom was calling me frequently to know the situation and I admitted this hunger thing to her, which Mr. Stranger also heard, it seems, after few minutes there was another announcement according to which now the train might come around 12.30! I was making faces and that sound which could easily make out how irritated I was by now. Even though I agreed to Mom that I'll have something from the stalls at the Railway Station but then I was angry and didn't want to have anything. The man was still sitting next to me. The train in which he was to go was to come after that for which I was waiting.
In Humanity he asked me if I will like to have something, which meant he would buy me something. I said NO politely, that I will get myself something afterwards if I'll wish to. Awkwardly, you won't believe what happened? There was another announcement that, please don't take any food item from Strangers as it might contain drugs or harmful stuffs! I was to burst out of laughter but some how controlled, not that I had any doubt in that Man, but the announcements timing was so perfect, he was looking Sophisticated and was Old as well (in his 50's! How do I know? I saw his DOB when he showed me his BOB id. Hope no offence! ;)) The Stranger, replied to the announcement that, Yes, it's right! I ignored all this & went back to my books.
It was 12:45 now! People who were to travel through the trains started coming. One very Old man was coming towards me, I noticed. I quickly wrapped up my stuffs and gave him place to sit, there was no space near by where he could have sat. I finally closed my Books & packed my bag! The Stranger too gave his place to the very old mans relatives. We were standing on the platform. The Stranger asked me to come along with him & we would go & inquire about the so called vanished trains arrival, for me it was, if they will come or not? Where it had lost in Transit? I was wondering! It was 1:15pm by now!
I preferred walking along with him; we were having general talk as to, what is my caste? What I do at work? Do I like Mumbai or the Native place? etc etc... I honestly answered that I'm brought up in Mumbai & Love it. So I wish to spend the rest of my life here! Mostly people don't like such answers, but I don't care, either you should not ask something & if asked then you should have the strength to listen the truth! I asked him about his family, he have two children both are boys! We heard another announcement which said the train will arrive at 1:30pm! I felt like killing somebody! But you see killing is crime, so can't do that! :(
Then we walked to the next platform where the train for which I was waiting since so long was to arrive. The Strangers Train was to come on Platform No. 3 & mine on 1. I told him that he should go to the platform no. 3, but his logic was that his train was to depart at 2:40pm so he had plenty of time with him. The compartment in which my Uncle-Aunt was in was to come at the end of the platform & we were at the start. So I said the Stranger that I'm going to the end, he preferred joining me. There were stalls and he remembered that I haven't kept my promise to my Mom that I'll eat something and was starving since morning. I was careless, angry, but was not hungry at all. But the Stranger insisted that I should have something. I asked at the Stall for the Bourbon, I love chocolate flavor always! I was taking out money but by now the Stranger paid it for me! I don't like somebody paying for me, but then I thought that, it’s okay he was elder to me so I should respect his feeling. I shared it with him (only because he had bought me, otherwise ME & share Bourbon with somebody! Impossible :p )
The Stranger, asked me that will I remember him or forget? Oh GOD! Not again, I felt. Why people expect this from me? I can’t remember all people I meet, especially such short term meetings. I was confused as to what I should answer? I said that I will (a default answer is good sometimes, I thought :)) But the Stranger asked my mobile no. I was surely not to give. I can’t give my personal no. to anyone! There was no need as well. I said him clearly that, sorry but I can’t. But he was insisting that he will call me only when I’m free. I told him that I don’t find time to talk to my cousins then how can I talk to you? All these things, I seriously don’t like. I asked him that, what is the logic in this? We have met only for few hours & why he wants my no.? But then I don’t like suspecting anybody as well. He said that in future if I’ll ever need help in job then he will help me to get job in BOB! OMG! I don't need all this. I was in dilemma. I asked him his no. and said that I’ll call you, whenever I will need your help. He said that if I'm not comfortable then I can call him from any no. he will not mind it, but he wanted me to call. He started justifying that he is not the kind of person who will trouble me or something of that sorts, he just want to stay in touch, that’s it. I was confused, suddenly I had one idea, and I told him that I can give him my email-id. But he didn’t have an email-id. I said him to make one, he agreed. Phew! I felt relieved. It was time for him to leave, his train arrived on Platform No. 3, and mine was still missing. :( I waved him a Good-bye! He said, I’ll be waiting for your call & hope to see you again. I just smiled and said bye.
As soon as he left; I too started walking at the end. At 2:00pm finally arrived, I found my Uncle & Aunt and went to Home.

Actually, this post is for the Stranger, in a way that I'll not forget him thing. Rest I will definitely not call him, nor I'm judging him in any way. It's just that few things are out of my order, no matter whatever happen. But then I don't want to hurt anybody as well. Sorry, Mr. Stranger! :(

Singham

Wow! Just loved the movie. You may call it as Dabang part-2 but still can't deny liking it as well. At least I simply loved it. My first impression even before watching the movie was, that it might be too much of action. I don't like too much of action, rather I don't like hero getting beatings, heroine or the family getting troubled. But in this movie Ajay was the one who was beating all those villains. Yes, the actions were too hypothetical but then after all it's a Movie, is what I thought. :p
You can still say that it had that South Indian flavor, though they showed Maharashtrian village life. But the action scenes were reminding me that as if I was watching any movie from South.
Over all a good watch (^-^)

Salient features of Jan Lokpal Bill (in English both)

Salient features of Jan Lokpal Bill

1. An institution called LOKPAL at the centre and LOKAYUKTA in each state will be set up

2. Like Supreme Court and Election Commission, they will be completely independent of the governments. No minister or bureaucrat will be able to influence their investigations.

3. Cases against corrupt people will not linger on for years anymore: Investigations in any case will have to be completed in one year. Trial should be completed in next one year so that the corrupt politician, officer or judge is sent to jail within two years.

4. The loss that a corrupt person caused to the government will be recovered at the time of conviction.

5. How will it help a common citizen: If any work of any citizen is not done in prescribed time in any government office, Lokpal will impose financial penalty on guilty officers, which will be given as compensation to the complainant.

6. So, you could approach Lokpal if your ration card or passport or voter card is not being made or if police is not registering your case or any other work is not being done in prescribed time. Lokpal will have to get it done in a month’s time. You could also report any case of corruption to Lokpal like ration being siphoned off, poor quality roads been constructed or panchayat funds being siphoned off. Lokpal will have to complete its investigations in a year, trial will be over in next one year and the guilty will go to jail within two years.

7. But won’t the government appoint corrupt and weak people as Lokpal members? That won’t be possible because its members will be selected by judges, citizens and constitutional authorities and not by politicians, through a completely transparent and participatory process.

8. What if some officer in Lokpal becomes corrupt? The entire functioning of Lokpal/ Lokayukta will be completely transparent. Any complaint against any officer of Lokpal shall be investigated and the officer dismissed within two months.

9. What will happen to existing anti-corruption agencies? CVC, departmental vigilance and anti-corruption branch of CBI will be merged into Lokpal. Lokpal will have complete powers and machinery to independently investigate and prosecute any officer, judge or politician.

10. It will be the duty of the Lokpal to provide protection to those who are being victimized for raising their voice against corruption.

11. Lokpal will have powers to probe any Govt. official, politician or Judge.

Salient features of Jan Lokpal Bill (in Marathi)

"जनलोकपाल बिल" मध्ये नक्की काय आहे???

१. केंद्रामध्ये "लोकपाल" नावाची संस्था काढली जाईल आणि प्रत्येक राज्यामध्ये या संस्थेचा"लोकायुक्त" निवडला जाईल.

२. सर्वोच्च न्यायालय आणि निवडणूक आयोग यांच्याप्रमाणेच लोकपाल आयोग हा सुद्धा शासनापासून पूर्णपणे स्वतंत्र असेल. कोणताही सरकारी अधिकारी किंवा नेता या आयोगावर नियंत्रण ठेवू शकणार नाही.

३. भ्रष्टाचाराचा कुठलाही खटला वर्षानुवर्षे चालणार नाही. चौकशी साठी जास्तीत जास्त १ वर्षआणि खटल्यासाठी १ वर्ष दिला जाईल, जेणेकरून २ वर्षांत शिक्षेची अंमलबजावणी होईल.

४.आरोप सिद्ध झाल्यावर सर्व नुकसान त्या व्यक्तीकडून वसूल केले जाईल.

५. सामान्य जनतेला या बिलाचा फायदा काय? ....आपले कुठलेही सरकारी काम जर सुनिश्चित वेळेत झाले नाही तर लोकपाल विधेयाकानुसार जबाबदार सरकारी अधिकार्‍याकडून दंड वसूलकेला जाईल आणि तो नुकसानभरपाई म्हणून आपल्याला दिला जाईल.

६.म्हणजेच, जर तुमचे रेशनकार्ड/ मतदानओळखपत्र/ पासपोर्ट यासाठी निश्चित वेळेपेक्षा जास्त वेळ लागला असेल तर तुम्ही लोकपाल आयोगाकडे जाऊ शकता. लोकपाल तुमचेकाम १ महिन्याच्या अवधीत पूर्ण करेल. शिवाय रेशनदुकानावर खराब धान्य, खराब रस्ते, पंचायत फंड घोटाळा अश्या तक्रारीही तुम्ही लोकपालकडे करू शकता. लोकपाल आयोगजास्तीत जास्त २ वर्षांत याविषयी पूर्ण निर्णय देईल.

७.पण या आयोगवर आयुक्त सरकार नेमेल का? नाही! आयुक्ताची निवड ही नागरिक आणि न्यायमूर्ती करतील. कुठल्याही राजकीय हस्तक्षेपाशिवाय !

८.आणि लोकपालमधलाच एखादा अधिकारी भ्रष्ट निघाला तर? नाही!या आयोगाचे काम पूर्णपणे पारदर्शक असेल. त्या अधिकर्‍याची २ महिन्यात चौकशी करून दोषी आढळल्यास त्वरित हकालपट्टी केली जाईल.

९.मग सध्याच्या भ्रष्टाचार विरोधी यंत्रणा बंद पडणार का? नाही... या सर्व यंत्रणा "लोकपाल" मध्ये समाविष्ट कार्यात येतील.

१०.ज्या व्यक्तीने भ्रष्टाचाराविरु द्ध आवाज उठवला आहे त्याच्या जिविताची काळजी घेण्याची पूर्ण जबाबदारी लोकपाल आयोगाची असेल.

११.आणि सगळ्यात महत्वाचे... लोकपाल आयोगाकडे कोणताही अधिकारी, नेता आणि न्यायाधीश यांची चौकशी करण्याचे अधिकार असतील.

Difference between Jan Lokpal & Lokpal

Jan Lokpal	Lokpal
Lokpal would have power to investigate allegations of corruption against judiciary.	Judiciary kept out of Lokpal's purview
The government wants to bring the judiciary under the Judicial Accountability Bill. Activists not happy with this, arguing that the National Oversight Committee under the JAB will not have the investigative powers and machinery to deal with criminal complaints, which Lokpal would have.
Lokpal can investigate allegations that any MP had taken a bribe to vote or speak in Parliament	Excluded from the purview of Lokpal.
Activists argue that the government is virtually giving a licence to MPs to take bribes with impunity
Lokpal should have powers to investigate allegations of corruption against the PM.	PM out of the purview of Lokpal while in office. Once he demits office, Lokpal can investigate complaints
Activists complain that CBI, which will currently investigate complaints against the PM under the Prevention of Corruption Act, reports to the Prime Minister’s Office and hence cannot be an effective agency
If the work of a citizen is not done by a government officer in the prescribed time, it should be deemed a violation of the citizen's charter, and as amounting to corruption. The officer should be penalised	No penalties proposed
Activists complain that the government side had first agreed to this and later went back on this issue.
Anti-corruption branch of CBI to be merged into Lokpal.	CBI untouched. Officers will be deputed to Lokpal
The bill should create Lokayuktas at the state level.	The bill only creates Lokpal at the centre.
The government argues that it is up to the states to provide for Lokayuktas
Lokpal required to provide protection to whistleblowers, witnesses and victims of corruption.	Whistleblower protection part of separate law to be introduced.

Other Important points:

* If you are getting your ration card/voter ID/passport late than the time mentioned then you can complain to lokpal and your grievance will be solved within 1 month. Lokpal & Lokayukta will get public grievances resolved in time bound manner, impose a penalty of Rs 250 per day of delay to be deducted from the salary of guilty officer and award that amount as compensation to the aggrieved citizen. * Politicians will have absolutely no say in selections of Chairperson and members of Lokpal & Lokayukta. Selections will take place through a transparent and public participatory process.

* Govt’s Lokpal heavily biased in favour of government servants and against complainants. An accused gets three separate hearings and an advocate at the government's expense. A government officer can file a counter complaint in a special court. Minimum punishment for a frivolous complaint is two years while minimum punishment for corruption is just six months.  * It Includes only 65,000 out of 1.2 crore government employees, citing heavy workload on Lokpal if more are included. A large number of NGOs (if funded by the government) included.

Interesting Reading 10

"A single logic to stop getting hurt is by believing that nothng is mine"

"Ae Watan Mere" - A Sufi Patriotic Song by Kavita Seth

इतना क्यूं सोते हैं हम?

इतना क्यूं सोते हैं हम,
इतना लम्बा, इतना गहरा, बेसुध क्यों सोते हैं हम ।

दबे पाँव काली रातें आती जाती हैं,
दबे पाँव क्या, कभी बेधड़क हो जाती हैं।
और बस करवट लेकर, सब खोते हैं हम।
इतना क्यूं सोते हैं हम ?

नींद है या फिर नशा है कोई,
धीरे धीरे जिसकी आदत पड़ जाती है
झूठ की बारिश में सच की खामोश बांसुरी
एक झोंके की राह देखती सड़ जाती है,
बाद में क्यूं रोते हैं हम।
इतना क्यूं सोते हैं हम ?

खेत हमारा बीज हमारे,
हैरत क्या अब फसल खड़ी है,
काटनी होगी छांटनी होगी, आज चुनौती बहुत बड़ी है, कांटे क्यूं बोते हैं।
इतना क्यूं सोते हैं हम?


सबने खेला और सब हारे, बड़ा अनोखा अजब खेल है
इंजन काला,डिब्बे काले, बड़ी पुरानी ढींठ रेल है
इस रेल में क्यों होते हैं हम।
इतना क्यूं सोते हैं हम?

लोरी नहीं तमाचा देदो,
एक छोटी सी आशा देदो,
वरना फिर से सो जाएंगे
सपनों में फिर खो जाएंगे ।

चलो पाप धोते हैं हम।
इतना क्यूं सोते हैं हम ?

प्रसून जोशी

Feeling thrilled

That day the feeling was great, the experience was good, the day was thrilling! Actually, now I'm not feeling that I'm that useless, no regrets for not doing something which I wish to but failed in doing it in the past.
Over all, I'm Happy! :)
Thanks to Maa, Paa, Bro for supporting me & letting me do what I wish to.
I've Miles to go...

Please visit this site

India against corruption official site & read the bills.
Before spreading the info the general responsibility is to our self should know about it perfectly.
Please spread bout Lokpal Bill as much possible. And do step out of your houses and take part in any of the rallies. There are so many getting conducted locally as well. It's indeed not necessary that all of us should go to Ramlila Maidan, New Delhi or Azad Maidan, Mumbai. But we can support Anna by spreading it in our home amongst our family members, friends, office colleagues, etc and tell others to spread as well.

Abridged info about the Lokpal Bill

1. Lokpal will be an independent authority which will not be under the control of the government. No one can influence the investigation

2. Lokpal will be a quasi judicial body. Investigations in any case will have to be completed in one year. Trial should be completed in next one year so that the corrupt politician, officer or judge is sent to jail within two years.

3. Any official who is proved guilty of an offence, his/her property will be seized and the amount of corruption will be recovered. The prevention of Corruption Act, 1988 has no such provision.

4. Currently the Lokayutta at the state levels don’t have powers to hear the case, they can only recommend. The state level Lokayuttas will also get the power of sentencing.

5. Any false case filed against the official will be punished.

6. The functioning of the Lokpal will be done in a transparent manner.

7. Lokpal will be responsible to provide protection to the whistle blowers who raise their voice against corruption.

8. There is a time frame for execution of the work by the officers. If the time line is not adhered to by the officer, penalty will be levied on the guilty official and will be awarded to the complainant. If lokpal is approached then it is the duty of the lokpal to get the work done within a month.

9. you can even complain against issues like bad quality of roads Lokpal will have to investigate the same as well.

At least we can spread the message. How?

Passing this message to everyone.

At least we can support Anna Hazare and the cause for uprooting corruption from India. At least we can hope that his Hunger Strike does not go in vain.
At least we can pray for his good health. Thanks for reading. Please Spread This msg As Much As You Can 'n Tell Others To Do The Same...!

Source: Received as a forward e-mail

About Anna

Working of Janlokpal Explained by Arvind kejriwal & Manish Sisodia

A day of action!

Today will be a day of Action. I'm finally going to do it, though for the first time but will do it. Didn't want to regret it later like last few times when I missed the opportunities. Definitely, very happy about it. Will update later about the happenings.
For the time being lets do things for ourselves, if not for others. It's our fight, lets fight it.
Fight Against Corruption!

I support your decision...

Today I came to know something more than this about her. That she is only 35! I can't imagine this. And could not stop myself from asking that why didn't she married again? She have almost all her life ahead, to which she said that, I don't want to forget my husband, the person he was, the life we shared together.
And this was what I said that "I support your decision."

I know life would be difficult but then it'll be the way she wants to live and not the way it should ideally be. Sure it was difficult for her to convince her family but she finally conquered it all.
I'm HAPPY for her.
May GOD BLESS her! :)

It tenses me...

Whenever anyone tells me about the practical scenarios, about how the life would be after C.A. the tough one, about the expectations of the market from the Chartered Accountants, when I listen from my friends, those who have cleared and are struggling to get job or are fighting to survive there or giving hard efforts to reach the positions they want or about the procedures that the Corporates take in recruiting C.A.'s
I get tensed, as to even after so much of hard work life will still not be a cake walk.

An emotional trap!

Each time I'm assigned an Audit, the first thing I decide is that I'll maintain only Professional relations with the people with whom I'll meet and interact and no attachments with anyone. But then people try to form it. Indeed, succeed as well.  They somehow trap me into different emotions and I fail and finally fall into it. (Don't worry even here they are girls only, always! :p) At every single Audit that I've done, there isn't even single one where the Accountant would not have said me that, if in future I get into practice then I should give them job in my office, that too without any interview, this was special request of the accountant of very previous audit, she had interview phobia. :) Then few want me to give them good Salary, more leaves, etc etc. Anything which they think has flaw in their current job they want that thing for them. Okay sure, is all what I say, I take it lightly. But then today was not something of that sorts. The Accounts Manager asked me chocolate for my good result. Then she asked me that, this time she is accepting chocolates but when I clear my C. A. Final I should meet her and give her sweets. I didn't wanted to say YES, for the sake of saying. So I said that, I can't promise but I'll try. Then she immediately asked that, will I forget her completely in future? I was confused as to now what I should say? So, I said that, my articleship will be over and I won't be coming next time for the Audit at their office and that this is my work, I go to different places and meet different people and then after few days I'm back to office. So it's mostly short term for all.
She is very emotional person, I didn't wanted to hurt her but it is like this. If she will get emotionally attached to me then one day I'll end up breaking her heart, though unintentionally but still.

One at a time!

I have always been with one person at a time. Have never been part of any group or something like what mostly people have in schools or colleges. But for me things have always been same way throughout the different transitions of my life, let it be school, college, articleship or classes. Let it be any time or any phrase of my life, I've never had been with more than one friend. Yes, I do talk to many but on priority list only one stands. Indeed they changed, that too only because time separated us! Hence made new friend. But their had always been one. As my best friend rightly says, I believe in being with one at a time.
Fair as well, being with more means less dedication towards any particular one but when you are with one person you are totally with them only. Though, I've always been attracted to groups but some how it never worked out with me. No regrets or complaints but plain acceptance of, how life has been as of!
Secondly, had never been friend with any male. I always thought as well as think that till there are girls around to help, there isn't any need that I should go for help to any male classmate. From the childhood I've believed into this and hence had never made any male friends. During School days can't remember if I would have ever talked to any boy, never felt the need as well, as I said before. Good or bad, right or wrong, I don't know but this is what my approach had always been. Even in college I had never talked to any boy, I always preferred being friend with girls. Sorry boys, but that's the truth :p.
Even today, this is how I'm. Can't remember if I had ever went and talked to a boy. Yes, I do talk to them sometimes but only if they come to me first and talk. I never took that first step. Not that I have any ego or something nor I'm against them but some things just go in it's own way, such is it. Have shared my contacts with some & some boys are in my friends list on social sites as well but that's only because they had shown some interest in being friend with me or else I don't think even these few people would have been my friend, but then it would not have made much difference as well! As life had passed smoothly without them as on, so it would have gone in future as well, at least I don't doubt. But never mind, things have changed a bit, yes, they have changed only a bit! And this change is accepted as well. Happily :)

Happy Friendship Day! :)

Chocolate Day. Yummy!!!

Day before yesterday, i.e. The day after the result, resulted very
Chocolaty... :)
At the client place everyone came to know that I had a result the day
before so they all wanted chocolate from me, though I wasn't that
interested. But still I bought the half kg pack of eclairs and
distributed to them, myself had few, the remaining I gave to my
friends at class. They were all happy for me. One of my friend with
whom I walk to my home gave me one dairy milk. When I reached home bro
told that there is one fruit-n-nut for me which his friend gave for my
positive result.
The whole day was chocolate, chocolate and chocolate. Wow! Only I know
how much I love to eat chocolates! But I got all dairymilk. But I love
5star. Never mind it was their love and I respect it. :) even now
having chocolate while writing this post. Are you Jealous? Should be,
that is what I'm intending to by posting this post. :p ;)

CA final, here I comes...

Yippie!!!!!!
Finally cleared my PCC. Relieved.
Not getting words to express myself. Just that am happy because, my
Parents are happy.
In Final, now the path is clear in front of me...

Wordict today!

@ 2pm have results. But me going to articleship, on Audit. Can't bunk
you see. Will know about my results only when others tell me. In fact
it's better as well. Once you are out you forget the tension and live
in the present. It's easy then to pass the time, than waiting at home.
Only my Parents know how mad I go before the result is out. I get a
head-ache, in fact I go to sleep because my brain don't allow me to
think more about it. Today can't do any of these things but will have
to concentrate and work may be it's a good option comparatively than
getting tense about it. Simply forget about everything and live in the
present. You got to fool yourself to be happy! :)
Hoping for a positive result. Let's see what happens...?

Instant Wit! :)

Yesterday, my friend was saying something about marriages and I didn't heard any of what she said, but I just added that,"please stop it, I'm not interested in it." To which she said,"you should learn swimming before you get in the pool!" 
And I said her,"...even if I don't, my Parents will still throw me in the Pool with the guarding Tyre thinking that I'll learn it once I'm in it..."
...and we had a hilarious laugh over it... :D
:)

Mr. Late is better than Late Mr.

Read this slogan near Kopar Station and few days back, implemented as well! :D
Was with the director and we were discussing few points with regards to the Audit which I'm recently doing. My watch showed, time to leave but while discussing things you just can't stand up all of sudden and say that you want to leave as you have class. It's secondary then, work also needs dedication. Finally when I left there was only one chance if I would have caught this particular train it would have dropped me on time. I rushed very hard and reached on time as well soon before train was to arrive and even the crowd was like any other normal day. It was time to board and as soon as I caught the pillar of the door and was about to step up, train started. These new local trains picks up speed very quickly. I immediately left the pillar because there was no place to keep even single leg and I would have fallen out of it. Have never tried such a thing before nor intend to. But have seen people doing such dangerous acts some succeed some fail, the cost can be your life. I can't gamble with it. Hence prefered being late than being Late.
So I guess, getting late sometimes because of some uncertain reasons is okay that trying to play with your life.
Though I'm still sad about it but can't help... :(

Growing age, falling values!

As we are growing up, the values inside are deteriorating with each passing day.
In schools at the age of 5 years, we very well managed to get up early in the morning and reach school on time, to sit for 6 to 7 hours that too for 5 to 6 days in a week and now, if people in the age group of 20's are asked to have a single session in the morning once in a week for 8 to 9 hours that too with 3 breaks still they are unhappy! They can't concentrate.
As a child you even asked permission to drink water in the class, now you don't have that much value to at least not feast in the on going lecture, this is a fashion these days. Munching while studying is more of a trend, fun and time pass!
As a child you learned teachers are equivalent to God! Now you have to say,"itna explain kyun kar raha hai ye?" Who the hell gave you right to remark your teacher with such a pronoun as if they are your childhood buddies. If teachers call you as friends and try to give you as much comfort possible that does not mean that you call them in such ways, exceeding your limits is just not done. Whenever any person acknowledge with such pronouns I feel like killing them. Seriously, people think that only they themselves are great and rest are just fools here.
When I was offered once something during the lecture and I said that, I don't eat anything during the lecture. All my friends have to tag me saying stop being "Raja Harishchandra" and today when Sir said that munching in the lecture is ill mannered behavior, all have to defend themselves saying that they never said that eating in the lecture was good! 
Please friends, grow up!

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One of the secrets of success is the consistency of purpose!

I'm going crazy about it...

Wow! I've always loved them but then these days I'm just going mad about the Shayaries. The one I've posted are from the Movie. I get many short ones as a forward SMS from friends as well. They know, how freaky I'm for Shayaries so they send me all those they have. But I want more to read. May be I'll buy some book.
Hmm... Have an idea, will have new Blog of Shayaries, soon possible. That's different story that I don't have that talent to write my own, as of! You never know of future prospects, I've never thought that I would ever write a blog but you can see, I'm doing it.
So future is unpredictable but I'll definately paste the poems available on the net, with due credit to the original authors, of course. But at least I'll have them in my personal collection.
Wow!
I have to do this job...
Happy Reading! :)

...to zinda ho tum!

Dilon main tum apni betabiyaan leke chal rahe ho to zinda ho tum.
Nazar main khwabon ki bijliyaan leke chal rahe ho to zinda ho tum.
Hawa ke jhonkon ke jaise, aazad rehna sikho.
Tum ek dariya ke jaise, lehro main behna sikho.
Har ek lamhe se tum milo khole apni bahein.
Har ek pal ek naya samaa dekhe ye nigahein.
Jo apni ankhon main hairaniyaan leke chal rahe ho to zinda ho tum.
Dilon main tum apni betabiyaan leke chal rahe ho to zinda ho tum.


The above poem is from the movie, "Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara."

Dil, tu kyun rota hai?

Jab jab dard ka baadal chaya, jab gamm ka saya lehraya.
Jab aansu palkon tak aaya, jab ye tanha dil ghabaraya.
Humne dil ko samjhaya.
Dil, aakhir tu kyun rota hai?
Duniya main yunhi hota hai.
Ye jo gehre sannate hain, waqt ne sabko hi baante hai.
Thoda gamm hai sabka kissa, thodi dhup hai sabka hissa.
Aankh teri bekaar hi namm hai, har pal ek naya mausam hai.
Kyun tu aise pal khota hai?
Dil, aakhir tu kyun rota hai?

The above poem is from the movie, "Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara."

Ye jaane kaisa raaz hai?

Ek baat hothon tak hai jo aayi nahi, bas aankhon se hai jhankti.
Tumse kabhi, mujhse kabhi kuch labz hai wo mangti.
Jinko pehen ke hothon tak aajaye wo aawaz ki bahon mein bahein, daal ke jaise ithlaye wo.
Lekin jo ye ek baat hai, ehsaas hi ehsaas hai.
Khushboo si hai jaise hawa mein tairti, khushboo jo beaawaz hai.
Jiska pata tumko bhi hai, jiski khabar mujhko bhi hai.
Duniya se bhi chupta nahi, ye jaane kaisa raaz hai?


The above poem is from the movie, "Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara."

Main hun...

Pighale neelam sa behta hua ye sama, nili nili si khamoshiyan.
Na kahin hai Zameen, na kahin Aasma.
Sarsarati hui tehniyaan, pattiyaan keh rahi hai ki bas ek tum ho yahaan.
Sirf main hun, meri saanse hai aur meri dhandkane.
Aisi gehraiyaan, aisi tanhaiyaan aur main, sirf main.
Apne hone pe mujhko yakeen aagaya.

The above poem is from the movie, "Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara."

Addicted!

I'm addicted to Coffee...
Whenever anyone ask me for the Coffee, all I say is, Yes, why not!
No matter how many cups I have had before, each one coming is accepted, happily.
Though I hardly find any Coffee better than I can make but this time the coffee that is served to me at the Audit place is comparatively good.
Cheers! :)

Male Dominated Society

Have you ever noticed that most of the sad songs are all sung by male singers!? Yeah, just count on, let it be Tadap tadap ke, Tanhayee, Layi vi na gayi, Breathless, Ya Rabba, Ye duriyaan, Bin Tere, Ae Bekhabar, Aap ka Suroor (whole album or rather Himesh Reshammiya's all songs) Viraaniyaan, Bewafa, Khali hai tere bin, Sau dard, Jag Suna Suna Lage, Aaj din Chadhiya, Tujhe Bhula Diya, Tu Jaane Na, Tune Jo Na Kaha or Mora Piya, etc and so many old songs are also there which are also sung by Male Singers. (Oops! This reminds me my playlist is full of sad songs, I have all of them mentioned and may be more, can't recall all of them now) Rest there are also these English singers like Enrique and BSB who make people cry by their emotional songs (I've heard these two only but am sure there may be many such) And I've not yet considered the Ghazals, there it's monopoly of Male Singers. But have you ever noticed this? Why is it so? I don't know? But funny thing is when my friend said that," We girls don't have scope of becoming sad by listening to SAD
songs as well." :)
And I wondered yes, she was right... :(
But then the other side of the coin is that we have romantic songs also in male versions. Now this is not fair.
Female Singers what are you doing yarr? We need you solely and please don't sing only duets!

Breath taking SMS...

Received this message from my Best Friend, after reading it our life actually changed. Here it goes:-
"Hey, I need 2 ask u somthng n I wnt u 2 b totaly honest wid me. It mite b akwrd betwn us aftr dis, bt i hav 2 kno hw u feel? I hav kept it in 4 a while bt nw i thnk its finaly time dat i shuld b straightforwrd n jst confrnt u. I hope dis doesnt ruin our relatnshp v alredy hav. Jst doesnt seem fair on me if I dnt get an ans. I wnt u 2 tel me truthfuly, I jst wnt ur honest opinion...






















Wat do u prefer?
















PANI PURI OR BHEL PURI???"

Can you imagine?
What rubbish kind of message it was? I really wanted to kill her for killing me for such a long time with such a ridiculous message... :/
Now please don't copy and forward it to your friend... :p
Promise me...

Interesting Reading 8

Try to have a character that of Salt. It's presence is not being felt but it's absence makes everything tasteless.

Interesting Reading 7

It'll be wrong to say that I can't live without you, because I've already lived without you. Rather I would like to say that, life will be better if you will be around! :)

Discovered a Baby! ;)

Few days back, had off from class so I reached home early from the
usual schedule. I was climbing the stairs of my apartment. As soon as
I reached the 1st floor there was a sweet little baby boy standing in
front of one of the doors and there was this lady trying to open the
door, I guess his Mother she is. The boy was of around 3 to 4 year
old, he was staring at me and I was staring him. His eyes were so
cute, I didn't wanted to get my eyes off them, his chubby cheeks, I
wanted to pull them tightly and kiss them till they go red (Aww...! I
can't resist it, yes I'm very wild with kids, that's why my nieces and
nephews run aways when they see me, because I hug them, kiss their
cheeks. Oh! I really love kids for every damn thing about them) But
then since it was our first meeting I didn't wanted to loose the
opportunity of us meeting in the future. You see, you need to be good
with kids or else you never know when can they dump you! Seriously! :(
I went close to him, he still gave me the serious look, I blinked my
eyes with a smile on my face, just wanted to give him assurance that
Baby, I'm your well wisher okay! Her Mother was still busy with lock
and key, unimaginably she took too much time I guess, but how does it
matter? I was enjoying his baby's stares, as if he wanted to scare me,
he didn't change his expressions with my smile. Hmm... Tough one to
get along. But don't worry, once I decide to be friend with somebody I
get it all, and especially with kids my rappo is quite good. It's a
record that I've always had neighbours who have small kids and I
always get along with them very well. Oh! I love kids... :) But for
the time being I prefered going with patience, so without any force I
went ahead to climb other two floors to reach home.
He was still noticing me I waved him a bye, he turned his face towards
his mother, may be finaly she could open the door. Never mind, let's
see how long it takes me to be his friend? For now, first task on hand
is to know his good name. :)

Interesting Reading 6

Running away from your problems will only increase the distance from the Solution.
THINK!

Sometimes you want to ask something but you don't find anyone to answer it

Today, life has taught me some lessons.
Recently, I'm at an Audit of a Private Limited Co., where I met this person, who is the head of the Accounts department. She is working with this organisation since past 15 years. I sit next to her, as I can approach her for my queries very easily, if she's nearby. I'm meeting her since past 10 days. But today, out of our general talks, I very commonly asked her how many kids she have? She said that she have none! I was embarrassed, but then I never expected that something like this would happen, if I ask somebody such a common question. I asked her then why don't she adopt a child? She was looking very sad, I cursed to myself for interfering into her personal matter. She didn't mind my question and just nodded a, NO! To change the topic, I asked something which complicated things more than before. I asked her what did her husband do? And I was shocked to know that her husband was no more in this world.
Two years back it so happened that her husband was watching T. V. and she was in the kitchen, all of sudden he got an attack and all he could do was just call out her name, she ran to watch out as to what has happened and he was unconscious by the time she reached out for him. She immediately took him to the hospital. Doctors declared that her husband had a brain hammerage and then he was in comma for 5 days.
Her eyes started watering while telling this incident to me. I wanted to stop her so that she don't get hurt more by remembering all that had happened to her. But then I didn't had courage to say anything. I was dumb, was not able to move nor I was in the state of knowing what should be done in such situations? I thought that may be I should give her my ears, may be she need a listener who can listen to all she want to say, may be she wanted to get that feeling out from her. Sometimes we seriously need somebody who can just listen to us, so was I doing. She continued that how after 5 days of critical situation her husband never recovered nor he said any last words, his last words were only those when he had the attack, i.e. he called out her name.

After all this sudden collapse of her dreams, she was into depression. But her Mother-in-law was the one who supported her the most. In fact, she after her husbands death removed all her accessories, which in our Hindus tradition we consider as symbol of married women. But her mother-in-law refused and in front of every one she declared that her daughter-in-law will continue to live as she lived before. In fact she wears the Mangalsutra and a bindi even today, that is why I didn't expected that something like this would have happened with her! Her mother-in-law in fact asked her that if she wants she can get married once again. But she said me that, she never wanted to be with anybody but her husband, that she had always loved him and will always love him only. She got married in an early age and her husband always supported her, that she will never have a person like him. He was the one whom she loved and still loves.

You see, love doesn't die with the person. It remains alive forever.

She was thankful the way her staff and her family helped her out to come out of this tragedy. She was upset that she had been married to only 15years and God took it away all from her. She is a great preacher of God. She day and night prays to God, her belief is that he exists. But after all this she doubt if God has ever recognised her prayers? Had he, he would not have given her so much pain. But still even though her whole life turned upside-down but still she prays to God. She says that, I can't resist God! And that sometimes out of frustration she do asks God as to why he took aways all happiness from her life? 

But we know that there is no body who could answer to our questions. Are we not having one sided conversation? We express ourselves to God and he just remains SILENT always!

Why it happens that the person who have more faith in God is the one who suffers more? They say that God examine their faith in that way. 

I think that it's good that I don't do much in these regards but am living without expecting from God! Even if you do, we can see what happens then...

I am not afraid of anybody, can't take things the way they comes. Why should we be slaves of somebody? Better I live it in my own way without  asking  begging anything from anyone even if you do, you will not get any but you will mere expect that they might happen and then end up being sad because they will not.

Everything is already written and things will happen in that fashion only, no matter how hard you try to change them.